Why are we fighting over small and stupid things?
Anonymous
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Sep 28, 2016
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Sometimes even the little things matter because all these things add up to the person we are or the person we identify. Just like a little gesture makes someone caring or a little act makes us hate someone, even though things may be small they will mean a lot to a person when there is emptional attatchment. The closer we are in a relationship the more vulnerable we are and the more hurt we get.
Anonymous
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Sep 29, 2016
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People fight over small and stupid things because they're annoyed with a personality trait. They use the small thing as a reason to insult that characteristic.
shiningSoul82
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Oct 2, 2016
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We fight of small little things because those little things can mean something to ourselves or other individuals
Anonymous
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Oct 12, 2016
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Usually when that happens it would indicate that there is a lack of communication and often times than not, indicate a bigger issue underlying these small and stupid things. Perhaps someone is extremely stress. Perhaps someone feels left out. Whatever the reasons, just take some time to figure out what really upset you both
MonieeExo
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Oct 12, 2016
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If you're fighting over small and insignificant things, it could be beacuse your relationship is getting pretty rocky. You should have a serious talk with your s/o, and see what can be done to repair the relationship.
ThaliaRavenclaw
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Oct 13, 2016
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It's almost like math. You can add 1, 100 times, and you suddenly get something big. Same thing with issues, you fight over the small because there are so many small that build up into something that looks so small to you but inside is so large.
Anonymous
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Oct 16, 2016
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The small every day things are the ones that define us, we have to battle them every day to become stronger.
InspireTheLiars
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Oct 26, 2016
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It might be an underlying problem in your relationship. If you find yourself fighting over small and seemingly stupid things be sure to address who you're fighting with and talk it over.
Dinaskhalill
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Nov 4, 2016
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Because we care about those things, they might seem small and stupid to other people but to us they're important and big
beautifulOcean
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Nov 23, 2016
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In my experience, when two people fight over small things it's because of either an underlying issue or a lack of communication. If you're able to communicate, you're able to compromise. It could also be because you and whoever is fighting are just completely different on your point of view and unable to reach an agreement. That's okay if you are, you just need to find some common ground.
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