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Anonymous on May 1, 2018
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Breakups are often so hard to get over because we are attached to the memories and the feelings that we feel when we are around that person, More often than not it's the feelings we miss more than the person and that is the first step to overcoming a break up, remind yourself that you will be happy again and you will feel wanted again and maybe that person just wasn't right for you but we confuse ourselves with feelings over reality.
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Anonymous on Nov 25, 2014
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Because it is hard to forget a person that has been a part of our life. We've showered them love and they did that in return so it's really hard to forget those things.
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Anonymous on Nov 25, 2014
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Well because you lost a loved one. It is not that easy to adapt to changes. After breaking up, it isn't easy to live your life differently the way you did when you were still together.
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RavingSkittles on Dec 4, 2014
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because its a deep emotional attachment that takes time to develop and takes trust. it takes more time to heal from the hurt that it does when its gone.
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Anonymous on Dec 18, 2014
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Your brain falls in love. As well as your body. When you are in love, your brain releases chems that make you feel good. When its over, the brain stops. You feel addicted to the feeling of being in love. Simple.
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starryRiver83 on Dec 26, 2014
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People have grown close to someone and find it difficult to let that go. It is difficult to go from one form of closeness to not having that as much afterwards. Many people find it difficult to accept that they have broken up with someone. There are guides on this website which relate to Break ups, should a person feel that they need to use them.
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lyricalArrow on Apr 24, 2015
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When you are truly connected with someone, it is hard to get over the emotions and feelings you both shared. Over time though, you will find that your ties to that person no longer exist and you may even connect with someone new.
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dlpeter on Apr 26, 2015
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I find it difficult especially when you have literally given up everything for the person including your own personal space. It becomes more difficult when you literally have to re-learn how to enjoy spending time with yourself and be happy without having to rely on anyone. Learning to be more committed to yourself. It's like you give everything to the person and you have to go through the mess and try and find the things that actually came from you so that you can use in on yourself to be happy.
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kindWatermelon82 on May 2, 2015
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Breakups are hard to get over because you are breaking a mental and chemical bond you had with someone. All the memories you had with them in the back of your mind and the chemicals for them still there just dormant. Most of the time it takes twice as long as you've been with someone to get over them because you need to forget how you once felt about them.
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SagaciousWizard on May 15, 2015
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Familiar territory often feels more comfortable then new territory and can be difficult to leave. The fear of change can increase that difficulty. Breakups are not usually very fun for anyone but with enough confidence in yourself, it becomes easier when you finally go for it.
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