What's the easiest way to break up with someone?
AdmirableGrace
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Oct 10, 2019
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Honestly speaking, there is no easy way to break up with someone. There will be heartbreak, tears, sadness and in some cases- exchange of harsh words. It's extremely important for a person to avoid the latter in every way possible. Talk to your partner gently and tell them that you feel like it's not working out and probably the best to break free from the bond. Acknowledge all the good times you spent together and say that it was a beautiful relationship but it's for the best that you guys stop it right there. And please don't do this over a text or a phone call. Meet him/her up at a place, explain what's been on your mind and remind them that you'll always be there as a friend. Good luck!
Anonymous
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Oct 13, 2019
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Sorry you are facing a breakup. This can be a challenging part of life. Although I cannot give you advice, put yourself in the other person's shoes. Would that breakup happen if you were not thinking of breaking up? What would you want the other person to do to break up with you? What is the easiest way of letting go of someone if you no longer want to have them in your life if you still care for that person? Are you willing to remain friends with the person? If yes or no why or why not?
Anonymous
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Oct 18, 2019
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there are many easy ways to break up with someone! but i think what's most important when it comes to breaking up is having a clean and amicable break up where both parties are willing parties. i know this sounds tough. many people nowadays would choose to break up over a text, saying "let's break up". but let's take a moment to think about the other party who's receiving the news - is it a responsible way of breaking up with someone you've spent time with? perhaps a phone call would be the second easiest way where you're able to communicate your thoughts conveniently and quickly!
loprei
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Oct 19, 2019
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When breaking up with someone, you want to be honest while also remaining respectful and considerate of their feelings. You also want to be sure this is what you want to do, and hold your ground if they protest. The happiness of others should not be at the expense of your own. Personally, I find it easiest to let someone know you want to have a conversation, and make sure they have the time for it and are in an ok emotional state at the moment. If you feel it's necessary to specify why, you should, but otherwise something like "I feel it would be better if we broke up, we aren't the best match and I want us both to be our happiest." is a good way to be mindful of their feelings too.
Singbird
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Nov 13, 2019
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Always try to talk face-to-face, be quick and easy about it, it will be hard and it will hurt, but its never right to lead it on or keep them guessing. Honesty is what everyone wants even if we act like we don't want it, but rip the bandage off. Talk to the person and always try to be the better person.
Another way would be of course if its abusive or you are scared of the person to do it through phone or bring someone with you for support. Block them everywhere after that, and always make sure you dont end it on very bad terms that would make you feel uncomfortable.
beautifuldarkclouds
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Dec 26, 2019
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It depends on the person you need to break-up with. Some will understand, some will not, some may take it too personally and make things messier, etc. But it's your personal decision. There are ways which may help you like, 1) firstly, make sure why you really need this break-up. Want is different from need. There MUST be a good intention. 2) what all things you are going to say. If you know the person, you must talk accordingly. 3) this is the tricky part, being honest. Be honest about yourself and to him and say it directly, not via any social media or any other media, face to face. But don't forget that if your intentions are right, then you are not doing something wrong. Be brave, to do things right.
Anonymous
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Jan 9, 2020
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Let's start out like this...there is no easy to break up with someone if you have given them your heart or trust. If the relationship is not working out, a breakup will come naturally. If you have lost feelings, it can be extremely hard on the other person because they have feelings too. But you must focus on your own happiness too. Never break up with someone through text though, it shows that you do not care as much and it hurts, bad. You can try and talk it out face to face, it is hard but you can show your emotion. You can ask to just be friends and still support the other person in their life, don't just fade away immediately.
FaithAmelie
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Jan 25, 2020
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There is no easy way to dump someone; there is also no easy way to get dumped.
Some people think escaping is an easy way out - like by texting a breakup, or simply vanishing from someone's life. From personal experience, this may feel easier at first but it comes back to haunt you eventually. And not giving closure to someone whom you once loved is simply unfair.
The best way to break up, in my opinion, is to communicate face to face. Share your feelings truthfully, with compassion, but don't give false hopes of reconciliation if there isn't any. Don't be cruel and shift blame. Take some responsibility in the breakup and end the relationship as amicably as you possibly can.
Good luck!
Anonymous
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Feb 6, 2020
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It's important to talk face to face and being honest. Use nice words,don't be impolite. Just tell honestly what's wrong about the relationship with kind words. I don't think it's necessary to any rude behaviour. And don't forget to keep calm,patiently tell him / her what did you expect & couldn't find. Telling what couldn't you find in this relationship will help him/her when s-he- were alone and start think about what's going on. Explain how do you feel about it... It won't be easy for anyone in this situation but it's really best way to don't accuse anyone for it.
PurpleEnglobe
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Mar 20, 2020
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Be Clear about your needs and respectful of others but clearly communicate what your intentions are and for how long. Take your time and listen carefully to what each other has to say it may take some time to come to terms with everything that has to be aired and like wise of your partner so give yourselves the space you need to share whatever you need to so you can reslove the relationship and move on in a clear direction and get help if you need to. It is better in the long run to clear the air and leave on a good note.
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