What's the easiest way to break up with someone?
JordO
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Sep 19, 2018
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Telling the thruth to the other person and be calm while you do that, the thruth always is a good path to make things easy and clearly, but first think about it.
Then you can be sure about breaking up with someone and is not neccesarily to get stucked in that, if you love someone please be sure to fix the mistakes in the relationship and if you don't then don't play games and be honest with the other person, people at first will not understand the way you told them the truth but at some part of the life they will do.
Heretohelpyou606
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Oct 13, 2018
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Tell them how you feel. Do not come up with lies or assumptions, the significant other will doubt himself or herself, just say that it is all you. Say it is distracting you or you are concentrating in your future, or something that is related to your life. Or perhaps just tell them the real reason. But if it is too harsh then do not say it because it will hurt him or her. Say you will still be friends and not cut off the ties between you both. Anything but do not blame them for anything or for who they are.
Anonymous
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Oct 18, 2018
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Don't tell them through text or calls - take a moment to tell them you want to talk to them in person, and try not to draw out the suspense yoo long. When you get your opportunity, directly and honestly tell them you are breaking up with them, and explain why. Be tactful and understand how they must be feeling, and stick around for as long as it takes to explain. Emphasize that the breakup is not their fault, or if it is, try to tell them as honestly and tactfully as possible or just go with a classic 'I just dont feel the same way anymore'.
You know them best, so when faced with actually having the conversation, go with what feels right and try to make the other person feel respected and not simply discarded.
TheLinenMonk
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Oct 20, 2018
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The easiest way to break up with someone is to just be honest.
Imagine you and your partner switched places and they were asking this question. What would you want them to do?
Reactively, you might scream "I WANT THEM TO NEVER LEAVE ME!"
Slow down.
If they didn't think you were a good fit for them long-term wouldn't you want both of you to move on as soon as possible so you each can have a new chance at finding someone better suited to you?
Or would you prefer loyalty even if it resulted in misery and resentment?
Break ups sting like heck, but that's the price we pay for being so vulnerable with another person. There is a reason why romantic relationships are rare and are so unlike any other relationship type. The pain is proportional to the love.
The best thing you can do is just be honest and handle it with kindness and support.
There is no "easy" way, just as there are no easy ways to stay together. This is just a responsibility we have when we commit to others. It is never easy staying or leaving.
Accept the responsibility. Be honest. Stand for your reasons. Dont give false hope. Don't try to stay friends (let each other heal).
angelFace94
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Nov 24, 2018
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There is no best way to break up with someone. Maybe try telling that someone in a very subtle way that you don't like them anymore and that you do not feel the same way you used to do. I hope it all goes well!
Omniscient04
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Dec 2, 2018
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Easiest way to break is to change your habits for some time which are not in favour of the partner. When he/she start disliking you and try to find someone else breakup with your partner.It will be easy when your partner start disliking you as they do not want to be with you anymore and this give a chance for breakup. Spend less time,do not pick calls,no texts and keep busy yourself in some other work so that they feel bored with you and slowly their feeling for you will be diminished and they themsleves want a break up soon.
Anonymous
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Dec 5, 2018
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Personally i think the best way to break up with someone is to just talk to them face to face and eye to eye and say something like I'm sorry but i don't think that it is working out. another thing you can do is text with them as some people are scared to say it to them face to face and eye to eye. you could even get a friend to explain to them as some people are just too embarrassed to do it themselves. anyway is fine and you cant be blamed for being a chicken if you don't want to do it face to face. :)
PeacefullyBrave
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Jan 9, 2019
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I feel it is important for the person who is leaving the other to be honest. I look at it as an employer to an employee. The employee gets updates on how things are going. The employee gets to discuss what they would like to see the employer change.
It's not just breaking up. Feedback is important throughout any relationship. It should never be a shock. Employer to employee is an example but obviously on a much deeper level.
Be honest about the reason. This gives the other the opportunity to work on themselves if they feel the person is accurate on their assessment. Speak to the person in a public place if you think it's necessary. Speak face to face. Texting, email, or over the phone is not acceptable unless there is a distance issue. Answer questions honestly. Be respectful and part ways. If the person you are breaking up with becomes abusive, walk away. You need respect too.
Anonymous
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Jan 20, 2019
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To simply break up with them in person. A lot of people feel annoyed and disrespected when broken up with over text, especially if the relationship was extremely important to them. You should tell them in a non provoking manner that you don’t think the relationship is going to work. I know it may be daunting to some people to break up in person but in my opinion it’s easier and more likely to end the relationship without anyone getting mad. You should tell them what you felt was wrong in the relationship, so both of you learn and don’t repeat the same mistakes.
Anonymous
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Jan 30, 2019
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Honestly, I do not think there is an "easy" way of breaking up with someone. Especially when that person has been an important part of your life for however long. Maybe try having a calm, rational conversation with that person (if that is a possibility) and explaining what has led to the break up. Express your feelings and try to make them understand fully what is happening and why. Answer any questions they might have and be patient with them. Break ups are hard on people especially if the feeling is not mutual. Being patient and understanding will also help give the other person closure on the matter. Hope this helps.
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