What's the easiest way to break up with someone?
relaxitsjustlife
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Jul 24, 2018
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The easiest way to break up with someone is in a text message. However the RIGHT way to break up a written detailed explanation delivered in hand. You can explain your side of things without interruption and it leaves your 'tone of voice' out of the equation. Also there wont be any back and forth, just a clean separation with a detailed reason why. Emphasis on the detailed, if the reason is because it doesn't work then its okay to say that, but lying is unacceptable, even if you are trying to protect them by doing it. If the person does not accept your written explanation well, at least you've already left them, it's no longer your problem. Note: this is not a blanket solution, it is simply my opinion. I have not taking into consideration couples who's lives are deeply intertwined complicating the 'clean break' style of separation.
artsymelody8
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Jul 25, 2018
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Be honest with them. There is no one way of breaking up with someone, but it is important to remember that you are doing this for your happiness and if they truly care for you, they will only want the best for you
wearywickedheart
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Jul 28, 2018
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In my experience, the best way is to sit down in a safe but comfortable place, and explain that there are problems. Say things like " I feel" "I think" instead of "you did.... " let the person know that it's not necessarily them as a person but the issues between you that have become unresolvable. Ask for their input but if they start becoming verbally or physically aggressive, end the conversation
WaterColorWitch
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Jul 28, 2018
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You just do it. You leave and block them and never contact them ever again, leave everything behind, avoid them for ever. Take refuge with friends and family.
That is the easiest way. It is not the right way usually, but in an emergency, and it's not even easy at all. But it's a clean break. You'll still have to clean up the mess after it though, and if you respect the person you wish to leave, it could be cruel or it could be kind. It depends on the relationship.
Anonymous
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Aug 8, 2018
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be honest, don't point fingers, express your feelings in a kind and gentle way, if you care about the person, they might be a better friend
heartfulPower23
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Aug 10, 2018
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easiest way is ,just tell them that you are not going well with them ,tell them the truth in a polite way we should always be straight forward in what we are saying .
Brightlights252
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Aug 10, 2018
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Sit them down talk over all problems and tell them why your leaving. Tell them all the time that was giving and nothing was done about it. Tell them that there is some compatibility issues within that the person isn't capable of fullfuling and relationship to be fulfilling if not what you don't do another person will
Anonymous
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Aug 18, 2018
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Being completely honest with them. Communication is key to a good relationship from beginning to end. By being open and honest with the person they are more likely to see your point of view. They will not feel personally attacked like they might if you were to leave them without a trace. You must let them know why things aren't working, and why you think now is the correct time to throw in the towel. Then, be opening to listening to what they have to say in return. Be open to hearing their perspective and you may learn new things about how they were feeling.
RicardoNavarro
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Aug 23, 2018
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In person, you have to be calm and respectful, its not an easy thing to do and we might not want to do it, but its the most honest way. You need to have a small approach and have a peaceful conversation. It is also good to give an explanations because if not the person might not react in the best way possible, and an arguement might take place. It is better in person why
1. You are being honest
2. Maybe you dont love the other person no more but at least you show you care
3. You wont feel as bad as if you did it through text
4. You can always see his reaction and emotion rather than text
LiteraryKitty
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Aug 25, 2018
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Have a plan, a way to make it as smooth and as painless as possible, while still going through with it. Sit down and really think through the situation- if you have doubts, it makes it harder to commit. If you have to make a pro and con list, do it. Plan what youre going to say, not to the letter, but the general idea of it. Acknowledge the good times and thank them for them, but still explain (it may not feel the same, maybe youre leaving the area, or maybe its another reason altogether), since everyone deserves some sort of explanation. When it comes to things they may have left at your house, pack them up carefully into one place, and bring them with you to wherever you have decided to go through with the breakup. An amiable, clean break is the best way to not have regrets, and to make the best of the situation for both of you
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