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What's the best way to stop caring about someone who doesn't care about you ?

Profile: goldfinch25
goldfinch25 on Dec 27, 2015
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Genuinely recall every single instance that they have not been there for you and rationally think about what their excuses or reasons are, to see if they are justifiable. Always try to be open-minded because some people just can't be as sympathetic or empathetic as you want them to be. However, there is a line between not caring and not being able to care as much as someone requires them to care.
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Profile: IamTheHybridPanda
IamTheHybridPanda on Apr 13, 2016
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Having self-worth, the more you love yourself the more you won't care about people who neglects your existence.
Profile: shutteredsilence
shutteredsilence on Nov 3, 2015
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Focus on other things. Turn your attention elsewhere. Create something. Write, draw, read, exercise. Learn something new. Discover something about yourself. Don't just turn inward, however. If you have other friends, turn to them. In time you will be able to move on.
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Anonymous on Apr 10, 2016
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There's no answer, believe me. I have been there and done that. Only time can heal it. We do have to try our best to be strong and move on with Life. Just don't let anyone take your kindness as weakness and for the rest of it, as the saying goes "time heals all wounds'
Profile: lenimentus
lenimentus on Dec 16, 2015
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My approach is that I don't stop caring or showing that I do but I let other things take priority. We are compassionate begins, made to feel and spread happiness. To wish not to do so goes against our nature and in turn also makes us feel worse/numb.
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Anonymous on Jun 10, 2016
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That's what I want to know. Can someone tell me. I care too much for people who refuse to reciprocate
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Anonymous on Jan 6, 2016
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Release the negative energy and let yourself know that you are better without that person. You can then begin to rebuild your self esteem and leave this person behind you.
Profile: suchAngel
suchAngel on Apr 3, 2018
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Try to indulge in other activities and people you really care about. After all, at end what matters is how you feel about certain things and people. You can never get over someone untill you find someone else or some other thing as much as it. Love yourself first.
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Anonymous on Dec 30, 2015
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This is a tough question to ask, because feelings cannot usually be easily cut off, even if you want them to. It takes time to resolve feelings for someone and it differs for every individual. I would say the best way to stop caring about someone is to focus on things and people in your life that bring you joy and make you feel happy. Once you pay attention to these great parts of your life it might become easier to stop caring about someone who doesn't seem to feel the same way, and therefore probably wouldn't bring you the same joy as these other things/people.
Profile: ciaraorourke333
ciaraorourke333 on Jan 31, 2016
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You have to remind yourself that you deserve better, you don't need them because if they don't care about you then they are not worth it
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