What's the best way to stop caring about someone who doesn't care about you ?

Time is the only way. Focus on who you are, not who you are when you are around them. In the meantime try new things, go new places, make new friends, and hold tight to your old ones. Time flies when you are having fun, and the more time goes by the less you'll find yourself thinking about the person.

I would say to just remember how dirty they did you and use that as your ammunition to be a better you. But you have to do it for yourself. To “ stop caring “ is hard especially if you loved this person. But to help yourself get through you have GOT to distance the thought of “ winning this person back “.. that’s not how you detach. It only leaves you with a lingering thought of desperately wanting them to care for you. I really Hope that you look deep within yourself to see that if this person didn’t care about you then they for damn sure don’t deserve your tears

To answer this question, I think we all have to ask ourselves does the person truly not care, or is there a form of our own projection of an insecurity involved in the conclusion... If the person does not care anymore, or has not ever cared, than the process of “not caring about them anymore” from our side is a slow thing that takes time. Only that way is healthy, and sometimes we regret just cutting someone out of our lives. On the other hand, it can be a good thing to talk to the person and better figure out whats going on.

Learning not to care! Not everything that matters to us is worth it! And what is it to care? To care is to take something into account, to give too much importance to something, such as a problem, an issue to be resolved, an opinion of others about you or something about you. I do not mean to say that we should “shrug” everything and everyone, however, without any shadow of a doubt, we give a lot of importance to matters that do not deserve or whose concern as they do not have any effect, since, at times, there is nothing we can do about it, only leading to wear and tear. It is necessary to develop a filter that helps us to choose what really should occupy our minds, freeing us from unsuccessful concerns, whose importance must be rethought. For example, I tend to worry less and less about what they think about what I do, although I still have several steps to go in this direction, nowadays I worry more about what I think about my personal actions, yes, I believe it must be of great importance, especially if we want to evolve as human beings. It is not uncommon for poorly resolved issues in our psyche to be the main reason why we care with annoyance that they could be faced with less seriousness and concern, since it is often about letting others' postures bother us, and when we care, we get uncomfortable , stressed, among many other things harmful to our well-being. We have to consider and value in these cases, that we always have people around us who like us and are the ones we have to keep open, learning not to give power to those, whose way of acting causes us discomfort. Let us cultivate only sincere relationships with strong ties, which are really worthwhile. Often, we let ourselves be bothered by people who don't even know it bothered us, such is their indifference towards our person, and off we go to the corner of punishment, thinking about what they told us, or the attitudes they had, wasting time and wearing us out with those that are not even important to us. It is actually our insecurity that opens the door to self-questions about the judgment they make of us. That is why I always repeat today that I care more about what I think about my actions, because that is what really matters. If my conscience says that I do my best, the rest is no longer important. I no longer cared much about “things”, and more and more, I care less, important to me are the people I love, doing things that bring me well-being, however, I have not yet reached such an evolution that allows me to be free me for good of what bothers me, what doesn't do me good, of people who add nothing. Sometimes our needs lock us up and trap us, but we have to work to become free and, finally, find the moment when we no longer need to care about what doesn't matter. I do not even pretend to be perfect, just as I do not expect others to be perfect, so what I most want is not to care about those who want to blame me for being imperfect, after all, that they resolve with themselves. We are going to focus on what really matters, and yes, for each one the sense of importance can be different, for this it is fundamental to know how to recognize when our troubles are caused by circumstances that involve things that we should not care about. Let us make our filters and thus lighten our load. I have with me that those people who express only a “blasé” air in the face of any situation and towards any person. You learn that no matter how much you care, some people just don't care.

Time heals everything sometimes days, weeks, months, or years. The best way to stop caring about someone who doesn't care about you is by putting all your energy into yourself. The best way for me to move on from someone is finding things to do that I enjoyed. Hanging out with family and friends. I journal and meditate whenever I start thinking about the person. I'll get out of the house to get some fresh air, walking, or jogging. It helps to clear the mind also. It's not going to be easy, but eventually day by day you stop thinking about the person.

There is a saying that I have been remembering for a long time, that is, the person who wants to leave can't be kept, and the person who loves you will not leave. When you like someone, you always silently pay attention to his movements, do everything possible to add his friends, pay attention to his every move, and want to know what he is doing all the time. Therefore, if you want to forget a person, you must learn to stop paying attention to him, block news related to him, and stop every thought of looking for him. When a relationship ends, you need to understand that it means that the two people will no longer have any relationship, and each other will no longer have any reason to contact each other. Therefore, there is no need to be sentimental or reluctant, because all these nostalgia are meaningless. Not disturbing each other is the greatest respect for each other and the best way to say goodbye. When we love each other, there is no problem with caring more, but when the love ends, caring will also become something for no reason, it will become a burden to each other.

I feel the best way to stop caring about someone who doesn't care about you is by accepting it. Accepting that you can't make someone love/want you and moving on. I know, it sounds easy but the first step to any hard situation is accepting reality and from there, stuff will fall into place.

if they don't care about you then they aren't worth your time and you just gotta remember that, remember that you deserve to put your care in to someone who will return that care towards you

I think that's impossible. Deep down you will always care and it's okay. Just don't let them hurt you.

accept that they have moved on and cut them out of your life. you don't need that burden of caring for them when they have nothing to offer you back.