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Whats the best way to get over your ex moving on before you do?

Profile: Brittneym101
Brittneym101 on May 31, 2017
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You can start by moving on for you. Not for your ex. Moving on takes time. Try not to worry about what he/she is doing. I know that it's hard, but you have to try. There is no easy way to move on. Meet new people.
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Profile: Vallicena
Vallicena on Aug 4, 2017
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Understand that you're experiences are for you to learn a lesson. To not regret it as well. You should spoil yourself when you figure out your ex moves on before you. Hang out with some friends and make sure you're physically and mentally healthy and happy.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 25, 2015
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its simple. you feel happy for them that they moved on before you so that it helps you realize that you could move on too.
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Anonymous on Nov 9, 2017
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Take your mind off things. You could try taking up a new hobby or sport. You can talk to your friends and ask for their opinion or even talk to your parents. There were young once.
Profile: kindFaith13
kindFaith13 on Nov 9, 2017
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Do not look at their social media pages! Try to keep contact with them to a minimum (if at all), keep busy and try to spend lots of time with family and friends. Every day will get easier
Profile: Pumpkin74
Pumpkin74 on Apr 26, 2018
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One thing I found useful is get out of their life! An ex that is still lingering around tend to make us compare our own lives to theirs. We each have our own journey and to compare yours to anyone else's will leave you disheartened. Just keep moving forward and don't look back at the situation. Just because someone has moved on, doesn't mean they are having a better life than you. Just be patient with yourself and give yourself time to heal in your own way.
Profile: StrawberryJamm
StrawberryJamm on Feb 9, 2019
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When an ex moves on before we do, we feel like we are deeply inadequate because their new partner seems to satisfy them when we couldn't. However, although we know ourselves from the inside with great detail, we know others only by what they choose to reveal. We can imagine that this new person your ex is interested in will inevitable have many flaws, insecurities and will be extremely problematic to live with at close range. Our ex will eventually understand this too. At the same time, we can understand that whatever traits we loved about our ex, whatever experiences we treasured with them, we could potentially find in another person, who doesn't come with all the annoying traits that our ex had. Our next journey is to get over the ex, focus on improving our own life and finding that new special person.
Profile: patzy
patzy on Nov 29, 2014
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Listening to empowering music, meditating over the past, accepting change, and embracing the future.
Profile: Uniqueg
Uniqueg on Dec 29, 2014
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It's not a competition so don't let it bother you, the important thing is to make sure your okay and healing from the situation, and people have have different healing periods than others
Profile: Gi
Gi on Apr 2, 2015
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Everybody has their own time! Don't be upset because your ex moved on before you. Maybe they didnt, who knows.
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