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Whats the best way to get over your ex moving on before you do?

Profile: helpfulBlossom8619
helpfulBlossom8619 on May 9, 2020
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Talk to you friends, go out with them and enjoy yourself. don't worry about your ex, it isn't about him anymore its about you. Live your life to the fullest and forget about him! Enjoy yourself! and remember that it is not about him, once you've broken up with him you need to forget about him, try and do it as best you can, enjoy yourself. Maybe find anew hobby, a sport could help you with any emotions your feeling. reading may also help, or something more calming like knitting or crochet. Overall I don't think its the most important thing to try to move on first. Just focus on yourself and it will all come naturally!
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Anonymous on Jun 4, 2020
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One way is to think about how much you had invested into the relationship. If they didn’t give as much as you did, they will not be as upset. Also everyone processes events and stressors differently. They may have moved on differently and faster than me but that’s okay. I may just take more time to think and feel confident and happy with myself, before I can get over the person who brought me comfort. The other person, may have just not needed to think it over, or may have been more confident in themselves than I was. Therefore neither of us was in the wrong, but just process things differently.
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Anonymous on Jun 4, 2020
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Trying to cut off all ways of you being reminded of her - i.e. old pictures etc. Then, though it's hard, try to go about your daily life without reminding yourself of your ex. Slowly you will start to feel like you're moving on and your ex moving on won't bother you. Furthermore, being cooped up at home is one of the worse things you can do - so hanging out with your friends and trying to shut out venues to be reminded of your ex in the immediate future is the best. After you feel you are comfortable reflecting back on your relationship, you can try to find what went wrong and personally grow via improving on this.
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amiablePond7294 on Jul 2, 2020
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I don't think moving on should be necessarily viewed as a race. Everyone heals differently. For some, it can be quickly and swift. For others, it may take time to fully understand and begin the healing process. I would not say to focus on getting over your ex before they get over you. Instead, try to heal from the breakup first. You may find that helps much more than trying to move on quicker. The quicker you move on, the more unresolved emotions linger with you. I wish you the absolute best of luck emotionally healing from your breakup!
Profile: JonRamon
JonRamon on Jul 19, 2020
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The best way to get over your ex moving on is to find things you like doing and using your support system which could include your family and friends. Things happen for a reason and thinking positively can help ease the negative thoughts and enable you to think more clearly and not worry as much. Keep in mind that things will get better with time and that you will be available for the person who is really meant to be in your life. This is also a time to work on yourself and focus on the important things you think will make you a happy.
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Anonymous on Aug 13, 2020
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prepare yourself to accept it, dont hold grudge, respect others desires, keep things organized, dont search for who was wrong , feel the peace and beauty of life always, know that people are not a property, the right one will stay.prepare yourself to accept it, dont hold grudge, respect others desires, keep things organized, dont search for who was wrong , feel the peace and beauty of life always, know that people are not a property, the right one will stay.prepare yourself to accept it, dont hold grudge, respect others desires, keep things organized, dont search for who was wrong , feel the peace and beauty of life always, know that people are not a property, the right one will stay
Profile: doubtfi
doubtfi on Aug 20, 2020
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Block them out of your life, if possible. Delete their number, block their social media, try to further yourself from them as much as you can. This way, you won't have to worry about their new relationships and can focus on healing and finding yourself a new relationship! If you have access to all their social media, you'll feel inclined to check up on them, and this can be greatly detrimental to your own health and progress. By completely evading the traces of their relationship, block them and forget about that information as you focus on yourself! Good luck!
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charmingdeer909 on Aug 22, 2020
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Realize that we are all différente and unique people who move at different paces. Honestly, the best way to get over your ex in general is to distance yourself from them so that you don’t have to “pour salt on a fresh wound”. When you start focusing on self-care and improving yourself as a person, you lose track of comparisons and it doesn’t matter that your ex “moved on quicker”. When you allow yourself that time to heal, you are able to think clearly from an outside perspective on your own situation, learning how to move on naturally. This is such an overused cliqué, but one day you’ll look back and laugh. Time truly does heal all wounds.
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Anonymous on Aug 29, 2020
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The best way to get over someone is to turn the focus inward. Focus on yourself, on growing personally. Do not compare your progress with your ex's. You are unique and it is not a competition. Your path and your life mission are different than anyone else. A great way to get over someone is finding out what interests you, hobbies you'd like to develop, spending time with friends and family. When you are paying attention to yourself, getting over someone gets easier. Also, do not put pressure on yourself, you are doing the best you can, and that it is more than enough. Take one step at the time.
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Asher on Sep 9, 2020
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There is no easy way to get over a ex super quickly as it takes time to move on from someone so quickly. When I was broken up by my former partner I was so destroyed from it all and was unsure how to move from it as well. I just came to terms that it was going to take a lot of time to move on from it. The best tip that someone gave me was to focus on something you love. For example for me, I did more peer support stuff to grow as a person but also to move on as well.
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