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Whats the best way to get over your ex moving on before you do?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 14, 2019
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Take time for yourself and try your best to love yourself and forget them. Even though it might seem difficult, everyone will go through it and everyone gets over it at one point. It might take a while but in the end, you’ll feel my better about yourself and your ex. You probably should talk to your friends about it and try to make new friends. Start a new hobby. Become creative. This will distract you from your ex and will help you get through that tough time. I have personally never been through this but a lot of my friends have and I’ve always helped them this way :)
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Profile: WinterivyButterfly
WinterivyButterfly on Nov 20, 2019
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Everyone moves on at different times. Your clock might not be the same as theirs, but that is completely okay. Rushing emotions can make them even harder to deal with. Allow yourself to process your emotions to help them all make sense and come into place in your head. Maybe they have a different way of coping, but you deserve to take your time! Most importantly, take care of yourself. The world seems like a roller coaster when you're going through a breakup, but you'll realize everyone goes at their own pace. Many people believe in you, and your ex might have a different external way of seeing the world. However, taking your time is the road to recovery!
Profile: Vampiress25
Vampiress25 on Dec 12, 2019
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To delete all of your text messages and photos of them. and focus on your self. I would suggest being off of social media so you won't stalk them. distract yourself a lot it helps to get over someone. Hang out with your friends so you can talk about them. Tell your therapist or a family member so you vent about it. You should exercise like take walks or go to the gym. IT dose relive a lot of stress and you will feel much better afterward. if you want to take other guys/girls you can just make sure that they know you're going through a breakup.
Profile: jaylynelora
jaylynelora on Dec 21, 2019
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Distracting yourself is always a start, do something you love to do, go have fun and enjoy your life. Live life to the fullest. Just because your ex has moved on does not mean they have won the so-called game. It is important to remember life is a journey and more importantly, it is your life and your journey. You cannot live your life to the fullest by worrying about an ex or others who have decided to not have feelings or any desire towards you. Never let your mistakes take over you or your life. Do not pay attention to that person, don't go and see how they're doing or what they're doing. Worry about what is going on in YOUR life see how YOU'RE doing. Always focus on yourself and your well being.
Profile: Bobofromnl
Bobofromnl on Dec 21, 2019
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Its a hard one. It depends on a million things like whether you stay friends, how long your relationship was and so on. I think its important especially in the social media age to look at how this information is effecting you and what would happen if you took a break from having them on your feeds or seeing them with this new person irl. Its always difficult to see someone you used to love in live with someone whos not you. Read a book, talk to friends, listen to some sad songs but most importantly dont compare yourself to them. If you need more time then thats totally fine. Dont feel pressured by them moving on. The one great thing about being single is that you dont have to do anything for anyone but you!
Profile: awesomeCat7035
awesomeCat7035 on Dec 26, 2019
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The best way to get over your ex moving on before you do is to put yourself first and focus on what is good about where you are now in your life and also to see how you can make your life even better. Speak to your family, friends, loved ones and remind yourself that you’re loved and respected. See breaking up with someone who didn’t appreciate you for the amazing person you are as simply one of the stepping stones to finding someone who will admire your qualities and be happy to grow with you. Learn from your past relationships and with time, you can wish your ex happiness (from afar).
Profile: zealousWinter25
zealousWinter25 on Jan 1, 2020
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This is always a difficult question to answer. For me, I tend to try and remember the reasons you have broken up, this is especially hard if it was out of your control, however, most relationships always end for a reason. In the moment it doesn't feel like it, but in the future you will see. Another way I try to look at it, is that if you and them are meant to be together, you will be at some point in the future again. Whether it's been a week or a few months, or even years, it will still feel a little awkward seeing them with someone else. A way to get over it, is to eliminate them from your life completely, even it's temporary and you reconnect in the future. The less you know, the less it can hurt you. However, that is very difficult and I appreciate that.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 18, 2020
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The best way to complete that is to find something you love, like a healthy hobby, and engage in that. Surround yourself with good friends and family and find a way to work on yourself. It's always good to maintain a good diet and sleep schedule as that will help to keep oneself in a better space. The best thing to do is to gace the emotions, and to keep yourself busy so that you dont get too much time on you hand to think about the ex. Aleays remember things did not work out for a reason. It gets better.
Profile: considerateCupcake33
considerateCupcake33 on Feb 23, 2020
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Best way to get over your ex before you move onto someone new is realize that it was most likely for the better that you broke up. You need to love yourself before starting a new relationship. Get rid of all you and your ex's old things together and start a new. Starting a new relationship before you are ready can come crashing down quick and hurt you more. Think about why you broke up and how you can improve yourself first. Don't think about improving yourself for others but make it all about you and take care of your personal needs.
Profile: Lumare
Lumare on Feb 26, 2020
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It’s best to understand that some people need more or less time to process situations in their lives. While you may take more time to move on from a previous relationship, their ability to move on more quickly is not treated to you. Focus on rebuilding yourself and becoming a better person. It will be uncomfortable at first, but as time progresses, you will feel better about yourself and you place in the world. Breaking up with someone is not easy, especially if you had strong feelings for that person. It’s important to continue growing and developing as a person.
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