Whats the best way to get over your ex moving on before you do?

you need to be comfortable being ok with it. some peopel need more time to do things when compared to other people. and that's ok. if you need more time to figure things out then that is fine. you need to learn how to be comfortable in your own body. when an ex gets over you, they aren't doing it to spite you. they're simply moving on with life. and it has nothing to do against you or anything about you. sometimes we need to just take in that the world isn't always about you and to move on with your life.

Do whatever you love. Learn something you're interested in, do exercises, do yoga, read books be in nature and travel. Explore the world around you and try some spirituality ! You know what? I've experienced same and I know how you feel...it was terrible and I was feeling awful. But than I find out that there's so many things I can do in my life and improve myself. I've jumped in introspective world and knew so many important things about me and putter world. I've found my way and I felt better. Gain knowledge and solitude really helped me to find myself and figure out my standards. Now I'm very happy and I want to make others feel the way I feel. I hope my words will help you to find your own way to your happiness !

It sounds like you are caught on your past relationship with your ex, who is already progressing into new relationships and moving on with his life. Breakups are hard, especially ones that have prolonged for years at a time, and so you may feel negatively about yourself in different ways. Of course, that is all normal to feel and it is perfectly fine to feel this way. Unfortunately, I cannot have you any advice- 7 Cups is a page for listening and handing out support where it is needed. You may find it useful to read the 7 Cups Breakup Guide, to aid you in this journey.

Hey there. It can really hurt to see someone you love(d) move on so easily, but it’s important to remember that they aren’t someone to compare yourself too. Everyone processes things differently. Take your time to grieve. Keep in mind the reasons you split and the growth that you can achieve without them. If you’re on good terms and still talking to eachother, consider taking a break to care for yourself. If not, I’ve found that in this situation trying to look at the situation the way my best friend would helps - protective of myself. You’re worth your own love.

The best way is to make yourself busy. Occupy your time with things you enjoy that can distract you because at first any spare time you have will be spent thinking of your ex. Draw, write, read, work a little, have lots of fun, go out to a party, dress well for yourself, get that haircut, shave/ wave if you like. But make sure you do everything keeping in mind that it's for you and no one else. Distract yourself with things you love and after a while you'll notice that they don't affect you as much as they did in the past. And always remember if they couldn't see how great a person you were, it's their loss. Not yours.

im exactly on this level. I think best way is to move on :) dont think about her/him moving on before you or after you or whatever. just think about your life and just live. move on and do something fun. video game is working for me to be distracted and working makes me forget everything. in its time youll find your soulmate

Focusing on other things that matter to you, breakups are hard and there's definitely a time of mourning but eventually, you also will move on, it's just important to remember this and put energy into yourself. Focus on friends, people in your life who matter to you, work on a project you're passionate about. Live the single life completely, focus on doing things you've wanted to do but haven't had time to. Remember that you are a whole person, sometimes the best way to move on is to have space from that person, so if you're staying friends it may be best to not talk to them for just a little while

I don't think there's any best way for that. It will hurt a lot. I'm going through this now. But you've to talk to yourself. Tell yourself that you have to move on too. That it happened because you weren't meant to be with the person. Think of all the times where your ex didn't treat you like you deserved to be treated. Then try to make yourself be relieved that it ended when it did. No matter who is at fault. And as time passes, you'll feel better. Then you can genuinely be happy that they have someone else but you will also be happy for yourself because life is good without them and you are so independent.

Honestly, everyone is on their own path. In my opinion, just try to be happy for them and move past it because staying caught up about that won't do you any good but at the same time allow yourself to feel those emotions too. If you keep it bottled up then it'll only become worse for yourself but just remember that everyone moves on at different rates and just because your journey is different than someone else's doesn't make them better or worse than you. Hang in there love, time helps heal all things even if it doesn't completely erase them!

For sure, people deal with these kinds of situations very differently. "getting over" something might seem like it's straightforward, but it's very complex. You might think they've forgotten about you, or that they don't think about you anymore. However, this might be their way of coping with the breakup. It's important to understand that moving on after a relationship is an individual process, and it's not fair to expect one person in the relationship to do so faster (or slower) than the other. If you wish to maintain a good friendship with your ex, it's crucial to give both of yourselves the space you need to move on at your own pace.