What's the best way to get over someone who cheated on you?

To me, the best revenge is by staying happy like nothing has happened and sometimes helping the person you cheated you can set him on fire. That's the revenge one should prefer, it spreads positivity.

Rebound.

Spend some time with friends, or spend time doing things you enjoy to take your mind off of the cheater. That helped me, maybe cry if you need to as well because that helps too!

To understand that them cheating is on them, and not you. It has nothing to do with you, and everything about their character as a person.

Focus on yourself, do things that distract you and that you like. Only with time you will get over that someone. Just remember that you are unique and that you will someday find someone else. Live tomorrow.

Remember that this has nothing to do with you. There is no excuse for cheating, no matter what problems there may have been in your relationship. I would start by focusing on yourself! Do some online shopping, take walks and listen to music an hour a day, try out that recipe you've been curious about. Don't even think about this person, do everything in your power to make yourself feel like a king or queen. If you really just feel like doing nothing, set up a Zoom meeting with your friends or family? Talking and/or crying over what happened can be a way to free your emotions.

Talk to friends or someone that is always there for you. Try talking to someone new a guy/girl which one you ever prefer. Get to know them because there are many people who are single and needs someone to talk too

The best way to get over it, is eat ice cream but dont over eat, you can also avoid them, or if anybody brings up their name, walk away and go cry it out, try your best to stay away from them.

This answer is different for everyone. It all depends on you and your personality. You can talk to loved ones about it, or keep it private. What I like to do is to write down my feelings on a piece of paper, as if I were talking to the person who cheated on me, or I broke up with. Wether my feelings are anger, sadness, stress, depression, or even happiness I always feel better by the end. This may not work on you though. Try activities that calm you or you enjoy. Some people like focusing on different things and keeping busy, until they've moved on. But it always depends on the person. Who are you? Ask yourself this. Try to understand your feelings, and why there are what they are. It'll be ok. You'll get through this. Understanding your feelings gets you one step closer to being happy with your life, and being at peace with yourself.

It definitely depends on the situation but the best way is to try to talk to someone who will help you understand your feelings to be able to process them in a healthy way. Often times when we feel betrayed and angry we overlook or deny to ourselves that we are still in love with the person and miss them badly. So this sadness and loss need to be acknowledged. It's a huge loss if you break up, especially after a long term relationship, not only it's a loss of the person you admired, it's a loss of trust, a loss of affection, loss of a dream, security it can trigger unprocessed feelings from the past in some cases thus can feel 10 times worse than expected. Finding the right help can be a good way forward if you feel the issue is still affecting you years later. Often it's our beliefs about ourselves that get activated (i.e. I'm not worthy of love, not good enough, etc.), which can be tricky to identify.