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What to do when you feel you are not good enough for someone?

Profile: natashareed57
natashareed57 on Jul 29, 2016
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I understand your feelings. But you can find the courage to change your life. First of all, love yourself. Be confident! If you do not value yourself, nobody will! You are precious, you are special If you feel that you do not deserve the person the person you want to be with,try to change what you dont like about yourself! And understand that if you are saying this about your physical appearance know that you deserve good because you are good at heart. A good looking person can only attract another person,not be with them for love because you need understanding for that,you must be good at heart....I know its Clichéd....this dialogue but its the truth! Love yourself !
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Profile: alexandrism
alexandrism on Sep 10, 2016
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The best thing to do is to let go of that person, because when you start feeling like something is too good for you it means that this thing/ person is not appreciating you enough and this is when you need to find yourself what you deserve and maybe have some time alone discover your needs and your worth this is when you will attract the person who suits your needs.
Profile: hearnospeaknoseeno
hearnospeaknoseeno on Jul 5, 2016
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I would encourage to explore the question as to whether you are good enough for yourself before you compare yourself to others.
Profile: NumberEleven
NumberEleven on Aug 6, 2016
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Everyone has their inherent worth, it's not something that can be taken away. You won't be the best for everyone, and not everyone will appreciate you or the things you do, but that doesn't make you any less worthy than you are.
Profile: UniqueHeart
UniqueHeart on Aug 25, 2016
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No one is better than anyone else. You are not lesser of a person and you deserve just as much as everyone else, you must believe in your heart that you are good enough for anything.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 8, 2016
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You just need to remember that you are goog enough for anyone.. if they tell you something like 'you aren't good enough for me just remember that everyone deserves the best and if they were enough for you they wouldn't say that .. Hope the best for you 😀
Profile: LoverOfHappiness
LoverOfHappiness on Aug 6, 2016
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Write a list of the things you cherish about yourself. We tend to focus on what other people think of us or want from us. But truly it starts with us first.
Profile: VerdictEndgameOver
VerdictEndgameOver on Aug 7, 2016
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Fight on and strive to improve yourself day by day! If you feel too unfit, go do some exercise! If you feel like you lack skills, go take some classes and the like! All too often we get caught up with our own feelings of inadequacy, and forget to actually do something about it. Strive to succeed, and take the steps to do it, and you will be surprised at the progress you make! :)
Profile: Kesa
Kesa on Oct 13, 2017
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I talk to them about my insecurities. I believe there is no point in making assumptions if you don't have a sureshot reason for it. Confronting the person, and talking about it is the best for a relationship. Being insecure is a part of life, and as humans everyone goes through it at some point or another, but running away from it is no solution. Easier said than done. I understand. But it's good to get to know the other person's opinions about you before jumping to any conclusions. As said "haste makes waste", take your time. But talk. Talking is the key.
Profile: Flawlessinsanity21
Flawlessinsanity21 on Jul 8, 2016
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I think this answer varies for everyone. It just depends on the kind of person you are. In my opinion, if you don't think that you are good enough for someone then tell them. Be honest about your feelings whether it is their fault or not. If it is them who is causing you to feel that way I would definitely tell them then. And if they don't improve I would remove them from my life because I deserve better and shouldn't have to feel this way.
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