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What to do when you feel you are not good enough for someone?

Profile: Peaceontoyou
Peaceontoyou on Apr 6, 2018
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Is to be true to yourself and acknowledge that it is time to completely remove yourself from that relationship
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 18, 2018
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Think about it: they are not good enough for you! You deserve the best and if they don't recognize it, find someone who does. They are out there.
Profile: insightfulSpace66
insightfulSpace66 on Apr 25, 2018
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If I ever feel like i’m not good enough for someone, I directly talk to them. I tell them I don’t think i’m a good enough friend, good enough boyfriend/girlfriend. Usually, people will rebuttal that by saying you are good enough. They’ll tell you how thankful they are for you because they know you are good enough. They’d tell you to stop doubting yourself.
Profile: LockeLamoraUK
LockeLamoraUK on May 2, 2018
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Look inside - why are you feeling that? Are you a bad person? We all have different timetables for success. All that matters is your intentions.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 10, 2018
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I usually talk to the person about or try to rid of that negative thought somehow. Maybe make a list or think if some reasons why I am good enough.
Profile: CharlieSharkie
CharlieSharkie on May 12, 2018
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You tell yourself that you are because, well: You are! Regardless of who you are or what you've done, you're an incredible individual, and you have every right to believe that.
Profile: Labyrinthx
Labyrinthx on May 16, 2018
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You feel that you are not good enough for someone because your judgement about your own worth is low. You are unique, special and amazing just the way you are. It's important to love yourself before you love someone else. I'm sure you would like to think about your compatibility with the person but you are good enough for the universe and never think low of it.
Profile: DrBurrito
DrBurrito on May 18, 2018
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Remember they are just human also.
Profile: MintedTea
MintedTea on May 18, 2018
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When I feel like I'm not good enough for someone, I try to be the best I can and hope that it's enough.
Profile: thethingwithfeathers98
thethingwithfeathers98 on May 26, 2018
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Reflect on why you feel this way - is this because you have self-esteem issues, or because your partner is making you feel like you are beneath them? If it is the former, you must think about how much this is affecting your partner and the relationship, and sometimes it is healthier to take a break to work on yourself, rather than seeking validation and assurance from your partner. If it is the latter case, that is an abusive relationship and you should leave.
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