What to do when you feel you are not good enough for someone?
kindheartedGrace81
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Feb 26, 2017
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Years ago I would have turned away or just put up a wall. I am now in a relationship where in the beginning I felt that way, but now we are talking more. I realized that talking with the person, and sharing your feelings with them really helps the relationship.
Anonymous
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Mar 17, 2017
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talk to that person tell them how you feel. you never know till you talk to them. And never forget that if your not good enough for them they dont deserve you.
Anonymous
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May 10, 2017
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Try to remember why they wanted you in the first place, rather than your feelings of inadequacy. However always be aware that every life form has their strengths and weaknesses, so instead of putting them on some kind of higher pedestal try bringing them back down your expectations to reality.
MeganL91
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May 11, 2017
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Remind yourself you are lovable and valuable. Take some time out of the day to reflect on some positive attributes you have; things that you love about yourself. Remember that your self-worth comes from no one but you, and that no one can take self-love away!
BiBiLSSD
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May 24, 2017
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Talk to them about it. Remember that honesty is the stable foundation in a relationship!
If you feel unhappy about something in particular then you must tell them why and what it is so it can be fixed as soon as possible.
FreshPeppermint
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May 28, 2017
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You should probably stop and question why you feel that way. What metric are you using to compare yourself to them? Could it be that there are other points of view that could shed a different light on the situation? But, perhaps most importantly, do they want you, knowing full well that you are a human being and thus have your own unique mix of qualities and flaws? Because in the end that's all that matters.
ConfidentLiar
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Jun 7, 2017
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You are always good enough. Even if you don't feel you are, you just keep their feelings in mind. If they thought you weren't the one for them, they'd leave. But they haven't. They're staying here, with you. Not being good enough isn't really a thing. You may not be their type, but you are ALWAYS good enough.
Anonymous
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Jun 15, 2017
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every human being is unique and no one is better than any other. However we can think sometimes we are not good enough. Everybody makes mistakes, even though we made mistakes, we should focus on learning from the past experience and making our good sides even better.
Anonymous
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Jun 24, 2017
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i try to be better and in that process and not loosing the fact that i have to be myself even in that process
maddiedobro23
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Jun 28, 2017
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Think about all the reasons that they love you, like how they feel about you and why they care about you.
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