What to do when you feel you are not good enough for someone?
Anonymous
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Jul 3, 2016
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Step back and take a look at why your feeling that way. Chances are it's just a little insecurity that everybody feels at one point or another. If somebody likes you then you ARE good enough. You should try to have a bit more self worth than you give yourself credit for.
OmgLeandra
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Jul 4, 2016
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I dont think you should have that mentality. Youre good enough for anyone. Know your worth! If you feel like youre not good enough for someone its probably cause theyre not good enough for you! Stay positive, whether youre a guy or girl youre beautiful and youre worth so much more than what you think.
kmrobs
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Aug 21, 2016
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Quite often when I find myself questioning "Why am I just not good enough?" the first thing I do is take a step back. I work re-evaluate the relationship I have with the person and what I've done that could have been wrong. If I find I'm fabricating reasons I am the problem I then evaluate the ratio of give/take and if the relationship is beneficial to my personal growth or well-being. If and when I find that the relationship is toxic and the person is hindering my ability to grow as a person I take the hard steps to sever the ties.
emitlove
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Jul 6, 2016
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Remind yourself that you have value. There is no one like you, and there never will be. And if you honestly think that you're not good enough for someone, honestly ask yourself why. Do you have underlying insecurity issues that you should talk to someone about? Does this "someone" tear you down rather than build you up as a person? If this "someone" doesn't remind you continuously that you have value, and that they care about you, maybe it's time to walk away from said friendship and/or relationship. And maybe it's time to work on yourself, and help you realize your intrinsic value.
braveSoul96
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Jul 30, 2016
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Well if the person is sticking around then I don't see how you're not. What if they're not good enough for you? Our 'flaws' and 'insecurities' are others favourite traits about someone. Know your worth and try not to mentally torture yourself with that question.
SparklingStarbuck
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Jul 6, 2016
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Hello,
Today I am into a non-judgement day. This means that I have decided about not making a judgement about anything that comes through. How do I do it? The answer for this question is that I do not categories anything which comes to me. By categorising I mean to think that something is good, bad, tall,short, fat, beautiful, ugly, tough, easy, etc. I have stopped my mind from labelling. I am taking every thing which comes to me in the form which it is.
So, based on my today's Non-Judgement. I would suggest not to judge yourself that you are not good for someone. The reason behind this is, if we think negative thoughts then we leave negative energy waves in our body and this makes us weak. Plus this waves of energy is so strong that it attracts the thing we were thinking of. Like in this case if we think we are not good for someone, this will be made true in sometime by the universe on its own. So, do not judge yourself not being good for anyone and think positive:-).
Apart from this, to be specific about the answer of the given question, we can follow the undermentioned techniques:-
1. Think of all the good and value additions you have made to that someone's life.
2. Make a list of all the value additions you have made. Enter all the points, how ever small they may be, add them in the list.
This will give you positive thoughts about for the other person and you will not fell that same again.
Apart from this you can also ask that someone to tell you what good have you done in their lives, what are your value additions because of you in their life, etc. Ask them to make a list of 10 or more points. (min 10). By doing this you will come to know what that other person thinks of you. Your thought of not being good will also be removed totally as now you will get to know your value form someone else:-). Outside and independent reviews are always good.
Stay Positive. Stay Blessed.
May the joy be with you :-) !!!
brightPeace91
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Aug 5, 2016
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Don't look down on yourself, we all have flaws and think some things can be done better. But if you really believe that you're not good enough, then change. Be the best person you can be, and if they think you're not good enough, then move on.
Anonymous
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Jul 27, 2016
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oh no, don't do that to yourself..thinking that you are not good enough for someone will do nothing but make you unhappy. Every time you find yourself thinking that you are not good enough..wait a second and think of a complete opposite thought. You can even try writing your thought down. What you tell yourself can really make a difference here. We all tend to be a little on ourselves but telling yourself that you are not good enough is like telling a child that he/she is not good enough. Will you do that anyone else? No right? then why to yourself?
Greatlistener87
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Jul 8, 2016
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You trust that person choose you to be with him/her because they think you are worth it. And know that if that person knows that you are worth it then so should you.
TheGlovedOne
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Jul 8, 2016
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Realize that no one is too good for you. You are a human, and so are they. You have a chance, just try it. If you get rejected, realize they are missing out on what they could have gotten.
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