What to do if a guy cheats on his girlfriend with you?
enlightenedSoul79
on
Dec 4, 2017
...read more
It depends on how you feel about it. If it bothers you, have a conversation with him about how you feel about it and see if he wants to leave his girlfriend for you. If he doesn't and the idea of him cheating makes you uncomfortable, the best thing would be to end the relationship.
DreamWhisperer999
on
Jan 18, 2020
...read more
If a guy cheats on you with his girlfriend means that he never really loved his girlfriend. If he cared for her then he would not have wanted to disappoint her by doing this. And considering the fact that he never really loved her I don’t think he is capable of loving you either.Honestly I think you should politely reject him and encourage him to be loyal to his girlfriend not so that he feels better but so that his girlfriend does not get hurt by his actions. I hope my reply helped you and I hope my advice works 😊
creativeSunshine46
on
Jun 1, 2016
...read more
Talk to the girlfriend and inform her on what has happened so she can get out of that relationship, also inform her that you had no idea he was dating her
briana6876786
on
Sep 2, 2016
...read more
don't do it because he could use you for your body just to get back at his girlfriend and maybe even just brag about how he could get wit you any time to everyone
Honeypuffs99
on
Oct 1, 2016
...read more
You tell him he must tell his girlfriend and be 100% honest about it. If he truly wants to be with his girlfriend, he has to be honest with her.
Sally7cups
on
Oct 21, 2016
...read more
Try to step back and view the situation from afar. First think about what is best for you, and take care of yourself
lovelyShiny78
on
Jun 22, 2018
...read more
You stop it and talk to him about it, you know it's not right to do it to anyone and no one deserves it.
GAddams
on
Jul 6, 2018
...read more
If you find out that you are the "bit on the side", ask yourself how you feel about that status. The ask yourself how you'd feel if you were the one being cheated on. Honest answers to those two questions will usually give you a pretty good idea what you should next.
Anonymous
on
Oct 23, 2018
...read more
I think you should talk about this with your boyfriend, you deserve happiness in the right way. If you think you are making unnecessary fights and havoc then girl, I think you can cut it off then go away but if he really is your happiness then you deserve to be happy. Communication is the best way to figure this out. Cheating is not a good thing, and the both of you should be honest to the people around you. If he can cheat on her, then what if you get together, that gives him another chance to cheat again. Lessons can only be learned if they get affected so much. Becareful girl, but you deserve happiness. We support you here.
AdmirableGrace
on
Aug 15, 2019
...read more
At first it might seem all nice and lovely but honestly that's not right. He's not only hurting her but there's a high chance that he will hurt you too in the future. Staying loyal and committed in a relationship is very important. If he loves her, he should stay committed to her and her only. But if he's not happy and wants to continue with you, it's for the better that he lets her go. He's not treating either of you right. It also shows how much respect he has for her. If he can do that to her, he can do that to you too.
Happylistenner
on
May 17, 2020
...read more
Try to put and end to it. You are probably hurting his girlfriend, but yourself as well. At some point the guy has to choose between you and his grilfriend. If he does not pick you, you will end up hurt. If he does pick you, you might encounter trust issues. if he cheated once, he might do it in your relationship as well. He should communicate to his girlfriend about what he wants. If he wants to be with you, its only fair to break up with his girlfriend. I think in the first place this is his choice and he should try to come to a respectful solution that works for you and the girlfriend.
serenekindness66
on
Jun 3, 2016
...read more
Never have contact with him again. He is not good for you. It will not end up well. Instead find someone who doesn't engage in that type of behavior.
Anonymous
on
Jun 5, 2016
...read more
Tell his girlfriend if you regret it. If you don't just don't do it again. You should confront him..
Anonymous
on
Jun 25, 2016
...read more
Push him away, tell him that what he's doing is not good, and then tell his girlfriend about what he did.
People should respect more their relationships, seriously...
Anonymous
on
Jul 16, 2016
...read more
You are the best at knowing yourself, if you truly have feelings for him then take action. At 7 cups we always encourage honesty, and you have to ask yourself how would you feel if you were the other woman.
Naicoro
on
Aug 25, 2016
...read more
i would probably be wondering why did i sleep with a guy since i am straight :p
well if you are a female , you should just tell him it was a mistake and what you two did is wrong in the right of the girlfriend and he should either take care of her or let her go but not foolish her by cheating on her
Anonymous
on
Feb 5, 2017
...read more
If you feel guilty about it, perhaps you should confront him and tell him to break it off with his girlfriend, instead of lying to her and deceiving her. She'll obviously be very if she found out through other ways. If he refuses, maybe you should go tell her yourself and explain that you weren't aware that he had a girlfriend.
Anonymous
on
Nov 22, 2017
...read more
Depends if you know about it or not. If you didn't know about his girlfriend, you cannot blame yourself. If you knew he has a girlfriend, you just lost one big thing: your dignity.
Anonymous
on
Mar 9, 2018
...read more
You stop him and tell his girlfriend. She deserves to know and you deserve more respect than that. That is the best thing to do.
positiveHoliday65
on
May 26, 2018
...read more
In my opinion the best and only way is the true. Tell her girlfriend but don't do it aggressive. All of them needs to talk and expose the arguments, a lie only will break all the relationship between you, him and her girlfriend.
I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
416 Answers
How long does it take to get over someone?
393 Answers
Why does breaking up hurt so much?
370 Answers
My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?
347 Answers
What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
322 Answers
Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?
317 Answers