What to do if a guy cheats on his girlfriend with you?

Honestly, there isn't anything you can do for the guy who's cheating. It's between him and his girlfriend. What you can do is take care of yourself. You may want to ask yourself why you were with him, especially if you knew at the time that he was cheating on his girlfriend with you. Ask yourself if you want to be with this type of guy and why. I'm not saying you did anything wrong here. All I'm saying is you need to look out for yourself because that's all you can do. In case, you didn't know about it, it isn't your fault and the responsibility lies on him. You can't worry about him or his girlfriend. Getting involved there may result in bigger issues in your personal life.

Get powerful emotional affair healing books to read, join a support group for infidelity and learn from other users experiences, get some support from family or friends you can trust. Try to work on your own self love and self worth and try to find ways to not be codependent on him. If you already knew he had a girlfriend it might make you feel shame or guilt, try to work through those emotions by journaling and try to understand your worth, the situation was about them, not you. Social Media has made having affairs alot easier, so perhaps try to implement healthier boundaries.

You have to consider some facts such as are you aware that he has a girlfriend? If no, I feel sorry for the both of you. You and his gf are both victims. Sometimes people are very good when it comes to hiding their personal lives in order to achieve whatever they want. However, if you’re aware you should know that cheating or involving yourself in between relationship wont do you any good. Save yourself from the mess, save yourself from the pain and trouble. Know your worth, no one deserves to be a second option. Do the right thing, ignore him and message his girlfriend that his man is trying to cheat. Let us support each other as women.