what does it mean when he says he doesn't want to break up but he is not sure if he loves you anymore?
Anonymous
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Feb 7, 2020
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He is confused. Give him time. He doesn't want to break up with you, he still cares for you... Give him some time and make him know you love him! Then he will remember how much he loves you! Go out with him, go on a date, make him laugh, make him feel loved... he will probably reassure himself he loves you, if he didn't he would have already broken up with you! I hope you guys will be fine again soon. If it does last a lot of time, it could be for the better you seek help or break up... thank you!
PurpleEnglobe
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Mar 20, 2020
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That can be tricky because he is not sure of himself and isnt willling to let go of an already insecure situation. Its very difficult to move forwards because its into the unknown and feels safer to stay in the relationship even if its a little dodgy and unloving. So many people make this mistake and time and time again stay in an unhappy place with someone they barley speak to or want to be with because its the easy option. Ask for help with the relationship form outside sometimes others can see where you are going wrong and isnt so personal.
magneticHand2937
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Apr 4, 2020
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This isn't a good thing. I would ask him this:
If you don't know you love me why are you staying in this relationship?
Have you found interest in someone else?
or Have you already started a relationship on the side and feel bad so now you want to "sort-of" breakup?
Do not let him confuse you and talk around the bush. Be firm on getting the information out of him whether its just uncertainty or cheating. Do not set yourself up for heartbreak. I hope this helps you determine your next plan of action and hopefully you can get your relationship back on track.
Anonymous
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Apr 9, 2020
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Hw may be confused as to how he feels and may need time to figure it out. However, in the end it is up to you to decide if you want to stay and try and work through it together or if you want to give him space to work through it alone without distractions. You need to try and think about what will be better and healthier for you to cope with and maybe accept. You don't want to be used or anything, so you need to try and think with your head and not your heart. Who knows he may just need some time to think for himself and he may realize it's you he needs in his life.
HopingMagnolias
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May 16, 2020
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Honestly, he most likely doesn't want to break up for comfort reasons. Humans find comfort in security, rather than delving into the unknown. He's acknowledging doubt in his feelings, and expressing that he's debated breaking up but has refused the idea of it.
It's safe to assume that if love isn't making him stay, then something else is, whether it be comfort, connection, security, or a variety of other things you have to offer that he may not find anywhere else.
In my opinion, everyone deserves to be with someone who loves them or cares for them, regardless of what you may have to offer. Love should be the motivating factor here, and you are worth it!
Anonymous
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Jun 21, 2020
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He may just has fun with you,you make him feel good and doesn't want to lose what you guys have give him time timming means everything everyone needs space and time to think if after all this time he is sure he feels nothing for you let him go it is not good for you to be in a relationship and not being loved back in a relationship two people must feel the same but thank him for being honest because most people dont admit it and keep hurting others so all you have to do is to thank him for his honesty
Anonymous
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Nov 8, 2020
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We can't assume things based on that statement.
He might consider your relationship really important because he doesn't want to break it up, but he might not be sure if it's leading somewhere.
Sometimes we have invested some time in a relationship, and we appreciate more the relationship rather than the person itself.
What's more important is to consider your feelings first. How are you feeling right now? How does this statement make you feel? How do you feel about him?
Then you can also consider your position in that person's life, and ask him what does exactly means to him what that statement means. You can also talk to him to understand the next steps he wants to take in the relationship.
It's important to realize that you must be strong and true to yourself. Listen to your feelings.
Anonymous
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Jan 1, 2021
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This can mean a couple of things but in most cases it means that your boyfriend or partner is kinda confused about how he really feels about you and your relationship , so he probably needs some time and space to figure those things out. If you still care about him I'd suggest you stay in touch with him during the time and support him if he needs it , but other then that give him the time and space that he needs. I assume that once that he is or feels ready and has made the decision of either ending or continuing the relationship with you..he will let you know!!! Anyways I wish you goodluck :).
WatermelonFriend
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Jul 11, 2021
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It means that he doesn't want to be alone and doesn't want to hurt you, but it probably isn't the relationship you're looking for. You deserve someone who has no doubts about their love for you.
For a man to say that aloud, it has real validity. It is partly intended (unconsciously or not) to keep you in the position of trying to "earn" their love.
Knowing you are worthy of love (and have value outside of who your boyfriend thinks you are) will shift your perspective on this. You haven't done anything wrong. It isn't your fault.
Sometimes people just aren't right for each other. When it is, you'll *both* know.
Rasenchidori
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Sep 22, 2015
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I think it means he is losing interest. I am sorry if this is too direct but I would rather you be prepared for the worst. A break up might occur but if you sit down and talk it out, there could be a solution to continuing the relationship. I wish you luck!
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