what does it mean when he says he doesn't want to break up but he is not sure if he loves you anymore?
2AmTherapist
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Jun 27, 2018
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he enjoys your company, but not in that type of relationship, or he wants you to break up with him so he doesn't feel like an a-hole. You guys should probably take a break so he can get his thoughts together about his feeings
fillve1212
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Jul 18, 2018
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That you have to work on your relationship! If you truly love him, show him that you're there for him, let him experience good things. I know it's hard to do so, but try not to overwhelm him with your feelings and see how this will turn out!
Niley
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Aug 9, 2018
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It is only attachment not love. This kind of people doesn't love you. There is only a bonding between you
Anonymous
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Aug 30, 2018
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It means that this person is going through a tough time internally and they are unsure of what they want. This can be a normal feeling but its best to assess a situation on a case by case basis. It's important to assess how that makes you feel and if you are willing to be part of the uncertainty or if that will simply affect you more emotionally in the long run. During times like this surround yourself of your loved ones, listen to your friends and family and those who you know want the best for you.
Anonymous
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Sep 13, 2018
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It means that he is unsure and why would you want to be around a person that has to think and rethink if they want to be with you or not. It's not worth being with someone that can't be sure about his feelings for you. you have to love yourself enough to let go of what doesn't see your worth. Sometimes we want to stay with people we are comfortable with, just because we feel comfortable, but it's not fair to be in a relationship where you are the only one giving your all so the relationship works. You must love yourself enough to let go of those things that don't make you happy.
snowflakes
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Sep 16, 2018
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First rule of any relationship. Listen carefully and take note. When people tell you something is wrong, believe them the first time and see what went wrong. Ask them. Work with them to resolve it. But remember too, there are things people say and than there are things they don't. So also observe. Don't let love blind you. Observe things which weren't said but we're obvious there. And lastly, don't forget to look inside your own self. Are you thinking too much? Is it necessary to find meaning in everything someone says when you are doing the best you can? Overthinking is bad , not just for your relationship but also for your health. So stay cool minded.
Anonymous
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Oct 11, 2018
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He loves you but he got bored with you that's why he doesn't want to break up with you cause he already need you but he need to take his time to realize his bored and come back with you, everytime he spend with you can't be forgotten, he need a long time to forget about you and live a life like you never be there for him. Bored always come in the relationship that's always, you two just need to find a way to make your relationship more better than now. Take your time to talk eye to eye :)
SnowButterf1y
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Nov 2, 2018
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It is simply just mean he is lost and not being able to know what he truly wants. The reason he doesn't want a break up is because of his inner fear for many reason, eg. fear of not finding someone with qualities like you, fear of being alone, fear of being lost and etc. However, he is acknowledging the fact that his feelings for you were not as strong as before and that again leads back to he is unsure of whether you are what he wants. he is just a confused person of not knowing his needs and wants.
MiMercy
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Jan 15, 2020
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I don't want to break up with you but i don't love you again! That is a dreaded statement. It brings up so many other questions of what went wrong? When did it go wrong? Why didn't I notice this in time? Could I have done something to make you keep loving me? Where do we go from here? Does this mean we continue the relationship and I shouldn't expect love from you? Infact are you telling me it's my choice to either break up with you or stay in a loveless relationship? It takes a while to recover.
enchantingSky79
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Jan 16, 2020
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It means he is not sure about the relationship. He is having doubts about you. He doesn’t want to break up out of fear that he might regret it but he doesn’t feel the butterflies anymore or at least not as much.
He is okay with still being with you because he got used to you and he is not sure about breaking up or he lacks the courage to break up.
He might also have something to gain or have other girls around that is why he is unsure. When he will meet someone else, he will break up with you really quickly or keep you as the side girl. Of course, chances are he just doesn’t feel that strongly for you and that’s the only issue and you might be able to mend the relationship. Is it worth it? It is up to you to decide!
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