what does it mean when he says he doesn't want to break up but he is not sure if he loves you anymore?

He's unsure of what he wants right now, love or friendship. Sometimes being with someone you adore so much and wish for them to not leave you, you create pressure for yourself and think that breaking up with someone will create an awkward relationship between the two, meaning it's no longer the same as before. At the moment you both have to sit and have a conversation just between the two of you and realize what relationship between the both of you suits best, being friends or boyfriend/girlfriend. It's better to have a permanent friendship rather than a temporary relationship.

Basing off from what you've mentioned (he says he doesn't want to break up)it shows that he cares deeply about you. If he's not sure if he loves you anymore, it usually means that he's confused with his feelings because to him, it might mean that he doesn't feel the same as he used to when loving you. His love for you might've dropped, or it might mean that he doesn't sense that initial feeling he got from being in a relationship with you. He may need some time to declutter his feelings and see what the real situation is.

He has mixed emotions if he doesn't make time for you anymore. Doesn't try to comfort you when you're upset. He jabs you between the ribs during fights. He just doesn't care about your needs anymore. If your guy keeps you around, it might be because he can't break those habits, as they've become so ingrained in the fabric of his life that he doesn't want to let them go. As a result, he won't let you go either, which only leaves you confused and upset. 5. He wants to keep his options open. Men's feelings after a break up are very complex as well, but many men have an uncanny ability to bury these emotions and make it seem like they're totally fine. ... They'll bury themselves in work, they'll avoid talking about their feelings and the breakup, and they'll keep it all hidden away from others

I don't know the specific context, but it sounds like maybe he's feeling conflicted. For whatever reason, and it may be totally within him, he wanted to address the possibility that he cannot love you in the way that you need. He might be scared to break up with you, but doesn't know if he can stay in a relationship with you, either. There are many reasons why he might not want to leave the relationship (comfort, familiarity, predictability, friendship, companionship, emotional support, sexual intimacy, to name a few) but it seems like he is also concerned with the possibility that the romance is gone for him. No one wants to break up with anyone, it's usually very difficult for both parties.

It must be really hard to hear that from someone close to you. His statement might mean a few different things, so it may help to communicate with him about what he means by that. However, you should also take into consideration your feelings. How did you feel upon hearing it? How did you feel upon his explanation of it? What do you want, either for the relationship or for your personal future? It sounds like his indecision may be an opportunity for you to assess your own decisions, and to choose whether you want to stay with someone who is unsure of whether they love you. Only you can know what the right decision for you is.

Granted all situations, relationships and people are different. I believe its fair to say there is something going on within the relationship that isn't being communicated. Attempting to figure out what it is without communication will prove to be exhausting and futile. I believe that if he says he is not sure that he loves you but does not want to separate, means that there is something that is pushing him away from you. Whether it be a behavior or behaviors of yours. I believe that when you meet someone romantically there are things that you fall in love with about a person, those small things about someones personality, habits, smile, or even their appearance. Whatever it may have been that you fell in love with is always there. I believe with time you get to know more about someone, including all the stuff you didn't fall in love with. What I am getting at is maybe there is something about yourself he doesn't see working out in the long run. This could also mean there is another reason as to what is making him think or feel that he is in love or loves you. There is no sure way of knowing what he means when he says that without communicating. But to me it means that there is something in the relationship that is causing him to think or feel the way he is.

It's hard to know for sure. He may just be going through a phase of doubt but he might not actually love you anymore. I have found that when a situation is happening, talking out your feelings and understanding what he is going through is extremely valuable. Knowing how he feels can help you figure out how to proceed. I know, personally, when I am unsure if I still love my boyfriend, it's oftentimes just self doubt and anxiety trying to look out for me and make sure this is the right relationship for me. It could help to try and ease hsi fears if that is what he is going through.

He might be afraid of being alone, or would just rather be friends with you instead of being in a relationship. I would suggest he takes a little time to reevaluate his feelings for you, but if he still is questioning his feelings about you, it looks like breaking up would be for the best. It seems though like he still wants you in his life in one way or another, but what you want is also important to consider. I would say you can likely still be friends with him if that's what you decide you want, but I would suggest spending some time apart for a while, maybe a few months, with little contact before reaching out again. Ultimately, this is only if you both want this, and it depends on your situation.

I have heard those words before and they hurt really bad. I stuck around one time after hearing these words and unfortunately he ended up breaking up with me anyway, so the next time I heard these words I just left. I find that if someone does not know if they love you or not, its not really the love you're looking for, and you should keep looking elsewhere. I hope my experience helps in some way, and I wish you luck in your relationship. If you need someone to talk to, we're here for you.

It sounds like both of you would be in a challenging phase in your relationship right now. Maybe your boyfriend is unsure, if it is worth it continueing your relationship and doesn't know what to do. A difficult situation. What do you feel about? You sure sound like you want to continue you relationship. So, why could he feel that way? Were there any problems or difficulties in you relationship before? How can you solve or overcome them? Your boyfriend really seems to struggle with deciding what is best for both of you. What can you say to cheer him up right now? I wish you the very best for your future.