what does it mean when he says he doesn't want to break up but he is not sure if he loves you anymore?

This has a lot of levels and depends on how you wish to look at it. Maybe the individual is getting mixed up. Love can be very confusing you think it's its all happy enjoyable and some kind of love story, but in reality love or relationships have to be worked at and people sometimes fall out and argue when in a relationships that's when you have to work at and you may doubt you're love towards someone. Maybe he was in this frame of mind the next day this individual could have worshipped the ground she walked on. Love ain't easy

That means he is confused about what he feels for you. But he have no right to take you for granted. As it's very natural that you want commitment and love in relationship. You should ask him to take time to think about it for few days or months and get back to you. His mind should be very clear what he wants to do about relationship with you. If he is confused then he should find out reason behind it and work on it. In this mental state you both can't make your relationship stronger. It's disturbing for you to be with a man who is not sure if he loves you anymore.

Most of the time if someone you are dating has said this to you then i would say that this person is either not ready, unsure or afraid to lose you by breaking up with you but at the same time there is some uncertainty. I could only imagine how daunting this may feel for you to hear something like that but the best thing for you to do talk to him and find out what it is that he needs to do in order for him to realize what his feelings towards you actually mean. Support him as best you can and don't push or force this matter upon him, just simply show him the reason why he wanted to be with you in the first place.

If he doesnt love you, it's hard, yes. On the other hand, if you feel like your connection is strong enough you could break up and continue to be friends. You dont always have to be dating to have a strong connection to someone. I broke up with someone a while a go and we still talk, we dont have any romantic feelings anymore but we still are super good friends. Sometimes just being friends with someone that you used to love can be challenging but in the end, they are still in your life. It's also sometimes important to let people go, letting go is hard but, it takes time and confidence in yourself to grow strong.

This could mean he doesn’t know whether to keep the relationship going. Although he’s not sure if he loves you anymore, the feelings he once had for you make it hard to let go. Having a relationship is a really nice thing to have, and makes you very happy. You get used to being with that person for some time. And ending the relationship would mean leaving someone who you loved, had a deep connection with, and made you more joyful than anything at times. He might be uncomfortable or even scared to go back to a life without someone to lean on.

He is confused with how he is feeling at the moment, it is possible that he has doubts with either the relationship, you, or himself and he does not know what to do. It is good to give to communicate about this with him to figure out things, but it is also good give him space and time to figure out his feelings and make a decision. You may feel uncomfortable when he said he does not love you but does not want to break up, but what would you feel if you are in his shoes? What would you do?

Believe him, if he truly wanted to break up he would call it quits. Sit down and talk about how you feel and why you feel this way with him. Make sure it’s all in good heart and do not argue. If he truly didn’t want to be with you he would have ended it when you asked. Perhaps to invite the spark back, go on an exciting date! Have alone time playing games or doing something more. Anything to bring back a positive vibe and overall loving attitude from your boyfriend/husband. Good luck to you. I hope all goes well.

I think he is just having a form of pity for me or probably tied down by what we have shared in the past.he doesn't want to hurt my feeling directly.or he is just having mixed feelings.have been in a somewhat similar situation.he is unsure what the future holds or he is trying to hold on to the relatioship and make things work as best as he can.relationship of this kind can be toxic in the sense that there is no love from the opposite side.the couple probably needs to talk it out and decide the next step to take.

Maybe that he's figuring things out and just isn't sure about too much and asking something as simple as "do you long me" doesn't have a simple answer. Also he's probably just used to the idea of having you around so is afraid to breakup but doesn't feel the same way. I know it's hard but this is how it is and honestly wish there was a sweeter answer to this but there isn't. So if you decide to stick around there's a high chance of you ending up hurt. More than you'd be if he'd just break up with you in the first place

I would say that could mean that the other person is not sure they want to make a 100% commitment to someone. Sharing your intimate time with someone should be cherished. Being at someone’s beck and call is not really a conducive way to maintain a relationship. It sounds like you are trying to hang on and keep a relationship together and the other person is not as invested as you are. Establishing what you will and won’t accept in a relationship is important because you can then make more informed decisions regarding what and how you will do things.