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what does it mean when he says he doesn't want to break up but he is not sure if he loves you anymore?

Profile: wonderousKitty16
wonderousKitty16 on Aug 1, 2018
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It means he feels guilty leaving you but hes confused and not sure how to leave you so questioning his o n feelings but being selfish and honesty at the same time to get your input and see how you react
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Anonymous on Aug 4, 2018
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He is most likely more confused than he lets on. He feels the spark is gone but is unwilling to let go of something that has been a part of his life for so long. Holding on to such a relationship in the hope that things will resolve itself is not conductive.
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Anonymous on Aug 15, 2018
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Normally this comes a loss of romantic feelings, but still having friendly feelings. They dont wanna hurt you.
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Anonymous on Aug 18, 2018
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This can be tough on you as it’s not a clear answer and puts doubt and worry in your mind. Make time to sit down and ask why he feels this way and what you can both do to resolve and work on this. Perhaps a little a space or thinking back to how you both were at the beginning and start there again. Relationships take time and you and your partner are always learning about each other. Spend more time with friends and around positive people while he is busy and perhaps focus on him and talking positively to him when you both are giving each other your attention
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Crystalline2Heavens on Aug 18, 2018
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Sometimes people start to feel the relationship isn't going where they thought it was going. Feelings change. Its a good time to talk to him to find out if the relationship is savable. If he says it is not, then he is not wanting to breakup because he is afraid to move on. In general people do not like change. It can be frighting to take the big leap and leave the relationship. Your a safe place in his life. Sometimes long term relationships move from intimate loving type to friends or even friends with benefits.
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AnnaTope on Sep 12, 2018
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This seems to be the type of statement that a person expects you to read between the lines. Personally to me this means I still want to be with you But I’m not sure if I’m committed to you. In other words “don’t build castles in the air” I’m with you now but I don”t know about tomorrow. Pretty much the ball is in your court to make the decision if you want to be with someone that is half into you. Or do you want to invest your time with someone that is fully serious about you.
Profile: PainKiller101
PainKiller101 on Oct 7, 2018
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He doesn't love me romantically, but loves me as a friend and is afraid that he will loose me if we break up. He knows that everything thing will change after that. He might also think that doing so can hurt me. He is reay confused about his feelings and doesn't want to take any serious step such has beak up before he is sure. There are also chances that only wants a casual relationship with zero commitments and no feelings attached, just for the sake of fun. Or he wants to give our relationship another chance and things it's worth giving a second shot
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sweetWriting46 on Oct 13, 2018
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This means he is confused. He might not be ready to leave you by having a Break up. At the same time he might not be loving you. He might be concerned about you. At the same time he is with confused mind loving and not thinking to have a Break up. He does not want to leave you and at the same time does not want to say Break up because you might get hurt if he say Break up and has insecurity of losing you.
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GEMINIALDRIDGE8D on Oct 13, 2018
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The only person who knows what he means by this is him. No one can tell you how he feels but himself. He may mean that he wants to be with you for sex, money, gifts, so as not to be lonely or another reason without the emotional attachments. However, he may also feel love and have feelings for you, but is not in the best mental place to explain how he feels, or isn’t sure how he feels himself but would like to take some time before making a decision so as not to make the wrong one. It could be one of many things, and you should really ask him what he means by this as soon as possible.
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Anonymous on Oct 27, 2018
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Probably he needs sometime. May be your partner is going through some tough times in life and i feel in a situation like that it's important to give some space. Let him/her take time and don't push it too much as it might tick him/her off and would cause more damage than you think. May be your partner is going through some tough times which is making him/her confused about your relationship. Whenever there is a possibility try to have an open discussion to understand what happened and what you can do to make it batter. Things might fall into perspective with time may be.
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