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What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?

Profile: 7CupsOfEspresso
7CupsOfEspresso on Dec 13, 2015
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Explain that you have no interest in reconnecting with them. If they continue to harras you, contact legal help.
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Profile: unicorn82
unicorn82 on Dec 13, 2015
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Ask them to stop politely. Usually we tend to give a reaction but if we surprise them with calm and polite manner then they'll be overwhelmed to a point they don't know how to react
Profile: Lazurus
Lazurus on Dec 13, 2015
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Tell him/her how U feel on the subject hope he/she stops and comes to realise what it's doing to you
Profile: thatgirl1269
thatgirl1269 on Dec 13, 2015
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That depends on whether you want the contact. If you don't, politely ask him/her to stop. If they won't, change your cell/mobile number/home number and ignore contact with them. Block them on Facebook. If they are a danger to you, call the police - don't think they will just "go away" - some people can become aggressive and if you're dealing with that type of person, it's best to seek professional help (ie. the police).
Profile: AtomicHugs
AtomicHugs on Dec 16, 2015
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If blocking fails,and he still tries to contact you.Then save all his messages,calls and text and file a police report.Inform close friends and your work that you want no contact with this individual.
Profile: StormyAngles18
StormyAngles18 on Dec 17, 2015
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well if you want them to contact them then ok but if not tell them how you feel about them contacting you but do it in a polite manner
Profile: CuddlyOasis98
CuddlyOasis98 on Dec 17, 2015
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Its okay to stay in contact with your ex its even fine when you are friends its okay. But if you don't like to be in contact with your ex maybe you should consider telling them about it.
Profile: MrRoboticWrites
MrRoboticWrites on Dec 17, 2015
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If you've asked them to stop and they wont maybe try and block them on whatever platform they are contacting you on. On the other hand, you could try talking to them, asking why they keep contacting you.
Profile: TheITGuy
TheITGuy on Dec 17, 2015
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That depends on what you want. Do you want to stay in touch and try keeping a friendship? Or do you want her to stop? You can everytime communicate to other people what your wishes upon such topics are!
Profile: heavenlyWinter
heavenlyWinter on Dec 17, 2015
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If your ex is contacting you for good reasons i think you can be friends. we dont have to ignore anyone.
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