What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?
KristenBugg
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Nov 15, 2014
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I think it really depends.if you do not want them to contact you, you could ask nicely for them to stop. However, if they continue then there is always a first step of blocking them from your phone and anything else they could get in touch with you on. IF you do want to talk to them.... I would cautious of their true intentions
An ex is an ex for a reason! Never forget those reasons why you broke up to begin with. In my experince in that they only wanted to come back around when another girl didn't work out.
kittykat
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Aug 13, 2015
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If your ex keeps contacting you against your will, it's best to set firm boundaries with them and tell them that you need space. If they ignore these boundaries, this is a form of harassment and you may need to get someone else involved. Depending on the level of harassment they're going to, this could qualify as stalking and you should get trusted loved ones or the appropriate authorities (or both) involved.
Behappylovie101
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Nov 15, 2014
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Don't be mean by not responding. They either still still like you and are trying to get over you or they want to make sure that everything is okay between you two
CourageousIceCream19
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Nov 3, 2014
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I had something similar to this happen. You need to sit him/her down, or call them and tell them that it's starting to bother you and you're trying to distance yourself. If that's not helping, maybe it's time to get some of your friends involved to tell them your thoughts and feelings to show your sincerity about the situation. Block them on your social media accounts if necessary.
cosyheart21
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Sep 17, 2016
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No Contact. It's hard going cold turkey, but it's so worth it in the end. If your ex contacting you is preventing you from moving on, blocking them, whether on text or social media, will really help.
Paradox88
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Aug 6, 2015
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Ignore it,if it does not work the first time why go for it a second time,in other words I suggest to your change phone number.
SheKnowsHope
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Jun 24, 2015
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Well it depends on the context in which he is contacting you. If he is sending you unwanted messages and calls, you can politely ask them to refrain. The reality is, if you were together for a long time, you were an important figure in their life, and it isn't easy to lose someone you've known for time. So it is important that you're understanding of their behavior as well. If after you ask them to stop contacting you, they continue to do so, stop replying/begin ignoring them. If they do not stop, you can contact the authorities. If you feel the situation merits it. For the most part, with some ignoring, they'll give it up. (They're just broken).
coffeemanbren2
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Aug 16, 2015
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block them. dont engage because it usually cant end well whether they are being hurtful or otherwise. block their number, block them on social media. stay in groups of people in public...harassers are afraid of groups of people and are less likely to provoke you if they see you in group.
monica889
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Oct 19, 2014
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If you do not want to keep in contact with him, let him know, be clear and honest. Also being mature and respectful helps. Remember that you dont have to do anything that disturbs you.
illusionspark
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Oct 8, 2014
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Ignore them. Let them know that you are no longer interested. Show them you are happy without me and never speak poorly of them.
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