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What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2015
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State clearly and firmly that you no longer want any contact of any kind and request that your ex respect your boundaries. You do not need to make any threats. Do not respond to attempts at contact after you have made your position clear. If contact attempts persist or become threatening or alarming you may need to take additional steps to resolve the issue. Do not respond to provocations. If you respond you have given them what they want and their behaviour may escalate. If you feel that you are in any personal danger it is important that you inform authorities and discuss the matter with those who are close to you and take steps to ensure your safety.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2015
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It depends. if you want to talk to him then do it but if you don't then you can block him or tell him how you feel
Profile: thesecretkeeper1115
thesecretkeeper1115 on Jun 27, 2015
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How about you ask yourself, "Am I okay or not okay with it?" After that, your next step will follow.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2015
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you can sort out the matter by contacting her once , then once you know her reason its your choice to be in touch with them or just move on!
Profile: frothySmiles42
frothySmiles42 on Jun 28, 2015
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block them if you are trying to move on with your life after all you have the choice to respond to them or not
Profile: realisticsolutions2
realisticsolutions2 on Jun 28, 2015
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u should listen to her and see what she (he) wants and then u should know ur options and work on the best way u feel cofortable in
Profile: nthngbttrth
nthngbttrth on Jun 28, 2015
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make yewr ex understand the reason that we can be nthng more dan jst a frnds. nd set some ground conditions pertaining to the stablity
Profile: paul1982
paul1982 on Jun 28, 2015
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If this contact is unwelcome, make it clear. Keep a diary of times and methods of contact. Let them know how this contact is making you feel. Tell the police as a last resort if necessary.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 28, 2015
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Do not respond at all in any way. If you respond after every ten tries, you are teaching him that it takes ten times to get you to respond. So the point is to stop him entirely you must not respond at all .. ever.
Profile: coolgirl69
coolgirl69 on Jul 1, 2015
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let he or she know to back off or else you'll change your number or warn the police tell an adult ...
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