What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?
RIPGwenStacy11
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Jul 10, 2015
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Call your service provider and tell them to block their numbers. Block them on all social media. If it goes any father then that get a restraining order.
Imhereforyou88
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Jul 10, 2015
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Tell him flat out to stop messaging you and if he doesn't tell your parent mom/dad/legal guardian and if that doesn't stop it get a new phone number
Anonymous
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Jul 10, 2015
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If you do not want your ex to keep contacting you, you can tell him/her that. Or you can just ask that person why he/she is contacting you.
MathewTheBull
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Jul 10, 2015
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Try the no contact rule which means politely tell them to leave you alone (unless you want to talk with them).
NamNomm
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Jul 10, 2015
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Tell them that it is over and that they should try and move on. If they still won't leave you alone, block them.
Anonymous
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Jul 11, 2015
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block him/ her on every form of social media as well as your phone or mobile device. seek support from the police if need be
MirandaPearl
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Jul 11, 2015
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I recommend blocking them on any platform they are contacting you on and if its possible, report them. Most of all, remember it'll all be okay!
butterflykisses27
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Jul 11, 2015
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Firstly if you do not want your ex contacting you. Be firm. Let them know without being nasty or personal that things just will not work out between the both of you. Its over and no going back. If they keep calling you can always change your phone number so they get the message loud and clear that you mean't what you said. If the person really persists like coming to your home and or place or work continually this is called stalking and is a police matter.
helpfulSoul57
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Jul 11, 2015
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There are two things you can do about it. One is that you tell your ex clearly that he/she needn't conact you anymore . Two , avoid the calls .
creativeDew17
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Jul 11, 2015
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deberias tener cuidado avisar a tus familiares para que esten al tanto o podes llamar a la policia .
StevensLion
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Jul 11, 2015
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If it is causing you stress, trauma, sadness or any negative feeling, then you must ask them to stop. If you have asked and they have not complied, you must find a way to block them from contacting you. If there is no way, then I suggest trying to ignore them or changing your number if that doesn't work. If it becomes threatening, don't hesitate to contact the police.
OriginalDreamer24
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Jul 12, 2015
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If your ex keeps on contacting you, I would change numbers, block him, or even tell him to move on. If y'all broke up, it was because of a reason. Time to move on.
Anonymous
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Jul 12, 2015
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It depends upon why they are contacting you, whether it's because they want to talk to you as a friend or if they want to get back together with you. If they want to be friends then there shouldn't be an issue with talking with them from time to time and being there for them, if it's not too difficult. However if they do want to get back together with you but you don't feel the same way anymore, tell them.
fruitySunshine64
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Jul 12, 2015
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If you have moved on with your life it would be wise to discontinue all personal communication with your ex. However if you are still single and see where you still have feeling for the person then you must evalute your feelings as well as the reason you broke up then decide whether to start over or break free.
friendlyEars70
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Jul 17, 2015
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If your ex continues to contact you, and the contact is unwanted, there are a couple of things you could possibly do. In my experience, politely telling them stop contacting you will allow them to understand that their attempt at talking to you can be painful. Sometimes, even leaving the message to the side for a while before you are ready to talk to them, will give you a bit more time to come to terms wit your feelings. Sometimes not saying anything is more powerful than any words we can write down.
Moodswinger
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Jul 17, 2015
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Clarify things out. Talk about it to your close friends.keep your self productive not busy. Follow your hobbies
peachpie
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Jul 18, 2015
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If you don't want to talk, start off with making the message clear and if they don't get it... Say Adios! Block that boy/girl/other!
tranquilityoblivion
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Jul 19, 2015
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Do you honestly feel like talking to that person? How does it make you feel? If it negatively impacts you I personally would ignore them because my well being is important to me.
jimmy0011
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Jul 22, 2015
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If you want to maintain the friendship tell them. But you also need to tell them if you dont. Communication is key. Just be polite about it.
Anonymous
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Jul 22, 2015
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If he is abusive.. go to the police or tell someone you care about like a parent or a friend. I would say to ignore it, turn off your phone, or get a new number! Whatever you do I suggest do not contact him back. That will just create more problems. I hope I've helped, I know what your going through I was dealing with the same issue last week. Stay strong and remember the best is yet to come.😊
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