What do I do if I love 2 people at once?

I’d say, weigh in who you love most. People would say pick to pick the second one, but since you also love the first one, you’re gonna have to think carefully who to choose and who you think you’d be with together better.

Loving two people at once is something that most people face in life at some point. Most people would say that you should choose the 2nd person that you fell in love with but I don't agree with this. I think writing down what you love about both of them and choosing the one who has the most things that you love is the way to go!

I personally have never been in this position before but I would imagine that I would figure out which one I was more compatible with and individually date them to see who is more suitable for me. Although love is defined in many other ways and if I had to choose between two people I loved, I wouldn't. I would find ways for both of them to be in my life. That's only if one was a best friend and the other one was my boyfriend.

I will sort out my feelings and find out who I really love because if I really love someone I will choose someone I really love.

Well then it's time to take a step back and try to think through everything. Sometimes it could be different types of affection~

well i would forget about the one you fell in love with first because if you honestly loved him/her then you would not have fallen for the second person.

When you love two people at once, it is a difficult situation. Someone told me that if you love two people at the same time, choose the second one. Because if you loved the first one, you would not have fallen for the second one.

Oh! That one i know too well! You love people in different ways, but almost always: "If you fall in love with 2 persons at the same time - choose the 2nd one. If you truly loved him/her you would not fall for the other" (P.s. It mostly happens in abusive/exploitative relationships, so be warned)

It depends on which type of love we’re talking about here, but given the question I will follow by assuming it’s romantic love accompanied by sexual desires, I believe you can love more than one person at once but never the same and equal amount of love, plus, if you’re looking forward to a long-term committed relationship which would probably follow into a marriage, keep in mind that love is only one of the important factors to sustain a healthy marriage, so I think if I were in your shoes, I’d probably search deep down on whom I truly love more, whom is more precious to me, whom I care about more, and most importantly, whom of which would be a better partner in the long run, and of course a better parent if you’re planning on having children. Good luck and I hope you live a great happy life full of loving and being loved!

Try to be honest in your communication and see who you can get to know the best and who truly deserves your trust love and affection. By being honest with yourself and others an issue becomes clear, but a lot of this relies on direct and clear communication. Instead of hiding your feelings and taking on too many dates at once, ask the other person how they feel and what they are looking for and be honest about where you are. You will be surprised by how many times people may be open to what you are saying, if they are not, or they try and it doesn't feel right to them, then you have an answer. Indecision while it can feel safe and rewarding to enjoy liking two people it actually adds a lot of stress and anxiety for everyone involved. Sometimes people may get hurt, but often times they respect you if you communicate and don't lead them on.