What do I do if I love 2 people at once?

You already have the answer in mind. The best advice I can give is to get real with yourself. Our priority in life will always be to be the best version of ourselves in life. This means being strong physically, mentally, and emotionally. That strength is what helps you make decisions that best suits your life. Find the one that will give you that strength. Love the one that loves you best.

I clearly recall seeing a recycled internet quote that said something along the lines of "If you're ever in love with two people at once, choose the second because if you truly loved the first you wouldn't have noticed the second" but I promise you that this is absolutely not the advice you should be taking. Sit down and try to sort out your feelings for each one. Is your "love" for both romantic? Do you feel a friendly connection with one that may be mistaken for love? Are these feelings of lust that were quickly created and felt? Write down the way you feel about each. Consider their feelings for you. Good luck on your journey to decipher what your feelings truly mean!

I say lay out the pros and cons of both people. Pick the one that makes you feel happy and brings positive changes to your life.

Loving two people at once can be tricky. First, you should understand both these people have a heart. In the end either your choosing one or you ending both. Either way you can't lead on both because you will break both hearts in the end. Everything you do in the dark comes to the light. Try making a list for both people of reasons to stay and reasons to leave. Analyze more about each person and weather you can truly see a future with this person. Maybe even try asking them question involving the future question that normally would come up. I hope this could help a little. I mean you always have a listener willing to help with heart when or if you decide to end it with one of them or both. Good luck.

Choose the second person, because if the first was meant to be then you wouldn't have fallen for the second.

it isn’t possible to love two people at once, you must have fallen in love with one person first, then the second after. However, if you loved the first person, you wouldn’t have fallen in love with someone else. Therefore, you only truly love the second person. When I thought I loved two people, I went for the second person and I’ve never been happier!

Tell them! Honesty is always the best policy! You can always figure some way to make things work. You have to be true to yourself!

Loving 2 or even more than 2 people at once is not uncommon. It's not shameful, in fact it's something to be proud of in a way, it shows you are a very loving person. But you must also accept it comes with some difficulties. You are in a position where you might end up hurting one or more of the involved people. You need to evaluate whether this love you feel is going to be good for you or the other people involved. It may be that the best thing to do is to walk away altogether, no matter how hard that might be. Having to choose could be incredibly painful, unless the choice is clear to you. But if you do decide to choose, make sure you never betray the trust put in you by them, if they decide to choose you too.

Be honest about it. Respect everyone involved and understand that they deserve to know the truth. Explain to them in the clearest and nicest way you can.

I try to give myself some space from them both so I can really connect with myself and work out my feelings. You never should want to lead two people on because it's not fair to them.