What do I do if I love 2 people at once?

My honest opinion is that you should make a pro and con list! It is a very simple and easy way to see what qualities you are looking for in a person. If you notice you are very unsatisfied with the answer the list gave you then you will know your true answer for which person is “the one”. It is so important that when choosing between these people you make sure you understand that they are human beings, and to consider your own relationship priorities. Ask yourself if you love these two people because they love you, you sincerely love both of them for who they are, or if you want to be in any type of relationship as long as you get the love you are looking for.

The first and most important thing is to push any thoughts that something is wrong with you out of your mind. It is very possible to love more than one person! I would say to give it a lot of time and see who comes to you. Especially since you love both of them, it is probably hard to choose just one of them. Time heals all wounds, it's cheesy but it's true. So yeah time and space, don't go telling them both that you love them or anything yet, see who comes to you and has the guts to spill their feelings to you. I hope this helps :)

There's a thing called polyamory, I recommend checking it out! It's about feelings love and passion towards multiple people at once, and being in crossed relationships. It a little different from the normal relationships we know, but for the people I know who are in polyamoric relationships, it works well!

If you love two people at once, it is completely your choice what you want to do. If you feel it is right for you to tell them both that you're also in love with the other, then go ahead, do that. If you feel that telling them would do more harm than good, then maybe give it some time and find a way to tell them when you think it's time. There is no right or wrong answer, what you choose to do is your choice and nobody should tell you what to do. Do what you want to do, what you think is right.

Many people love, in different ways. In current days, we tend to love more than one person for different reasons. occasionally, there comes a time when you are torn between two people. You, of course, know that you cant be with 2 [people at the same time. You need to make a choice of who will make you, the happiest. You can still be friends with the other, which means you have 2 kind s of love., you keep your love and you have an amazing best friend and if the one you chose to be with, works out wrong. Then you have your friend to lean on

Hello. Love is such a beautiful and powerful thing that can be shared amongst many or few. Most cultures have convinced themselves that we can only deeply and rommantically love one person (I am assuming when you say love you mean, in a non-brother sister friend kind of way) and this belief in only one person is able to love only one person can be tracked to either judeo Christian biblical morality "God says so" or the social understanding that the less people we are intimate with the stronger our links to that one person we have. But then you meet people like "matt" (name changed) Matt is deeply empathetic, charismatic and seems to remember everything about everyone. He treats people with care and concern and has found that he can feel deeply and fall in love with many people at a time. Looking into polyamory and the modern expressions that that brings, communities all around the world have started looking and experimenting with how one communicates a deep love with multiple people and how that is communicated to and between the multiple people. So, then you have the choice - could you hold both humans you love respectfully whilst communicating to and between an honest depiction of your desires and hopes? And would those 2 people be willing to be apart of a love community? Now if you are more asking "What do I do if I love 2 people at once and I only want to love 1 person" Then thats different. way up the pros and cons and just choose. Love has a habit of becoming quiet and disapearing when it is ignored.

Polyamory, or the love of several people, is a real thing. It’s not common in our modern societies, and generally frowned upon, and that’s why you only hear bad stories about it. But it can work, through communication. Are you in a relationship with either? Try to define what everyone wants from it, and what are your limits. You may need to define what kind of relationship there will be between your two lovers. Then again, it’s possible one or both of them do not love you. If you want to be really honest, you could declare your love for them at the same time, with both being present, and explaining the extent of your feelings. You must remember however that this is not the way most people see love, and it will take hard work, mostly through healthy communication, and you may face hard rejection

Make sure the person you loved second is worth it, if not stay with the one you loved first. If you really loved the first person you wouldnt have looked to the second person, but it could be just a crush so make sure its actually love or a crush, if its love then definitely stay with the second one as this person could possibly have better qualities and gave you things you never saw from the person you loved at first, try to compare both of them and realise who you truly love and can imagine living your entire life with, its okay to have mixed emotions.

It is possible to have romantic feelings for more than 1 person at one point of time; but it is up to your choice whether you want to love 2 people at once. Assuming you are not in an open relationship, being in love with two people will definitely hurt at least one person in this love triangle (and possibly hurt both parties and yourself too eventually). Think about this : if you truly love a person, would you bear to hurt him/her? Ultimately, you may have to make a choice. And how you want to choose depends on what you are looking for. Looking for a marriage partner and a relationship with no goal of marriage will produce two different sets of criteria for selection. Some of us go by our gut instincts, shared chemistry and our feelings - nothing wrong with that too. It totally is up to you. All the best!

This sounds a lot like what I actually went through recently, and am still kind of dealing with. If you were as deep in love with the first person as you had originally thought, you wouldn’t have fallen for the second person as well. It is possible that you can love both of them equally and at the same time. The best decision would be to wait things out and see how things change over time. Don’t act on either person right away, try to wait and see if your feelings change for either person during about a one month period if possible.