What do I do if I love 2 people at once?

loving two people one time is very difficult. Especially if those two people are unaware that you love two separate people for me it would just be a huge sign of being selfish even though both sides make sure to different qualities that you love the most about them especially when it comes to treating you with those wonderful gifts. But in the long run you're somebody is going to get hurt and it is going to be all three those two because they trusted you with everything they had and you simply because you are being selfish with what you seek

Love has no limits. Let your heart decide. It’s going to be hard, so really think about it. Pros and Cons.

Depends on what your definition of love is. However let's say that you are saying you are sexually attracted. I think that you are here because you sexually want them both but are worried if that's okay morally. So you have several options: 1. Don't tell them about each other and enjoy the company of both. This is the most egocentric approach and because of that has the potential to emotionally harm every participant. 2. Tell both of them about your thoughts and feelings and that you want them both. This is the high risk high reward scenario where you could lose one or both of them or get to be with both of them. Because of human nature it is also the most complicated route when more meaningful feelings develop. 3. Pick one. This is the least egocentric approach as you have to focus on what you value and want and put all your faith in yourself and your potential partner.

Also, in some cases this may be down to polyamory: where people physically get into relationships with more than one person at a time with all parties consenting to it (the mechanisms of polyamory can be quite complex but as long as all parties consent to it, that's all that matters really). If this may be the case, I urge you to look deeply at those feelings for both of those people and also to look inside yourself and ask yourself whether these are "true" feelings or they're superficial, do you love them both or is there one person that seem to be just interested in because they fulfill some things that the other person doesn't?. If you decide that you do not feel genuine love for both, then it's worth looking at which person you feel you will be able to get along with best and decide based on with whom you believe you will have the most fulfilling relationship. :)

You try to met go if the one who cayses you more hurt than happiness. You beckme aware that it would onlt lead to stress and fustration

Love is complicated, you can love different people for different reasons. I fall a little bit in love with people I meet all the time, I can love someones kindness, their drive and the way they see the world but it doesn't mean I am IN love with them. I'd say imagine your life with both, how it would be...then imagine out either one of them- if the thought of losing one hurts more than the other I'd say you have an answer. Or perhaps polygamy is something you're more open to- don't force yourself to choose unless you're hurting someone in the process. Let these feelings unravel naturally, give it space and time. Answers will come.

It's very possible that while you do love both of those people, you love them for different reasons and/or in different ways. Basically the love you feel, and the reasons for that love, are probably different. After all, these two people are different people with different lives and different relationships to yourself. And while I understand that it is hard to imagine a life without them, even when your love for these people conflicts, you should try to understand what you love about those people, and make a decision based off that understanding. Also, consider the possibility that your love for both of them will cause the loss of both of them.

You tell them. Let them know how you feel. Tell them you need time. Then work on yourself, see who helps you most. But always put yourself first.

You could be polyamorous! There's nothing wrong with pursuing relationships with both persons as long as your partners know and consent the relationship to avoid misunderstandings

I don't think there is any right or wrong answer to this question.. the way I would go about it is i would go with one that treats me better and genuinely cares about me and my well being. But that it's easier said than done.