What do I do if I love 2 people at once?

When you find yourself loving 2 persons at once first you need to identify what you want in a partner/relationship and where you see your future. Then assess each person and see who you can have a mutual and lifetime partnership with. It's risky and dangerous to keep both persons as you can get hurt and even hurt someone else. Also you need to talk to the other person when you've made a decision and do it in an appropriate manner.

Depends on the people you are in love with, if the people you love are opposite genders, bi, or gay, they may be able to accept each other, and have a more connected relationship. If each demand monogamy then a really nasty headache will happen. Ideally it would be wonderful for a 3 some relationship, but all parties would need to be open and honest with everyone else. No honesty kills any relationship.

Loving two people at once is something skeptical to think about. Let's look at a certain angle. Try to not balance the love you give them. Who deserves better? Who is more compatible to you? What will change if you pick that one? Think of the consequences.

Many people manage to have relationships with multiple people at once; that's how polyamory works. However, that can be difficult - for it to work out, everyone has to be okay with it, and it takes a lot of communication and negotiating individual needs. There's nothing wrong with relationships that contain more than two people. There are often problems with relationships where one person has two partners, but those two aren't free to also have other partners.

Love hurts sometimes. If theres two people you love, there's something you gotta determine. Who do you really love better? Who treats you better? Who's been there for you? Who fights for you? Who, overall, makes you a happier, better person? Spend time with both. determine who you really want to make things official with. And no matter what - don't cheat. Sometimes if you love two people it can get hard to choose. But in the end, you'll end up losing both. Choose wisely and make sure you think hard. Don't just go, "hmm, oh yeah it's fred i think! yeahit's fred." This is a hard decision that needs long hours, maybe days, of thinking. Don't take action until you know you've got the right answer and you know both the people.

Don't choose any. Wait things out, see which one you can see yourself being with for a while. Until you have a final answer of one person, don't make any moves.

There is nothing wrong with loving two people at once. Its only ever a problem when you are with one person officially. Like your in a relationship but your also with the other person you love on the side. there is a name for people who love more than one person at one and it called being polyamourous. The best advice would be is to look up what that means and explore you feelings for both people and find out why you love them. If by the end of it you still feel the same then you need to talk to both of them. Because they may accept you for who you are and that way you can love both together and not cheat or be apart from one or the other.

Be honest with both of them on your feelings. Empathize with how you would feel if you were in their position and be sure to not keep them confused or in the dark of where y'all stand.

You're poly amorous, and it's best to inform the two of that rather than try and manage two people at the same time.

Talk about it with the two people in question. This way you will be honest with you and with them and reach an understanding in common.