What could I have done better to fix this relationship?

Well, I've just been dumped by my last girl for no reason. Some relationships just aren't meant to be. Talking is a big point with this question, you have to open up to each other, keeping secrets and not telling your girlfriend/boyfriend if you're sad or hurting or depressed can add more stress, mainly because you worry the other person. Sometimes you love the other person more than they love you, and that's what hurts. Like my mother always tells me, if you don't feel the same love back, cut your loses and move on, life happens, and you can only do what you feel is right to fix a relationship.

I think there are a million things you could over analyse to try and answer this, but it will only frustrate and upset you. Why not concentrate on the things you can do better today to make you happier tomorrow - put yourself first. Pandaxia.

Its not what you could or couldn't do in your relationship. It takes two in every situation, whether it is good or bad

a relationship bases fundamentally on trust. trust implies sympathy, empathy, forgiveness and acceptance. don't be angry, don't react too emotionally, don't react to impulsive. just be calm. silent is the key for every conversation. learn how to listen. learn how to smile.

You did the best you could! There is no need to keep asking yourself what you could of done. The past is In the past.

Firstly, you should be proud of yourself for acknowledging your part in the relationship you are wanting to fix. This is something most people fail to do in any kind of relationship. The most effective approach towards what you can do as an individual, to improve the relationship with another person, is by receiving honest and constructive feedback. Sometimes, we may not be open or in favor of getting feedback from others but, the only way we can truly fix something about ourselves is by being told so. In saying that, people providing you with feedback should be specific in the way they give that feedback rather than, speaking in general terms. Once you have heard what people are telling you, you can then focus on improving those parts about you. Also, it is important to be true to you and only change the qualities or things about yourself because YOU want too. Not because of other people's expectations.

It depends on what the Underlying problem was. Some relationships can be repaired and others not so much. It sounds like you might be feeling undeserved guilt or remorse. It is important not to blame yourself, as not all relationships work out. You can always do some reflecting, maybe aa list of the Relationships pros and cons, if there were communication problems or similar. If there were major betrayals such as them cheating on you it is not your fault, even if your partner says it is and sometimes relationships with those problems can be unsalvageable. Sometimes couples counseling can help if both partners are committed.