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What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?

Profile: EricaA2000
EricaA2000 on Mar 23, 2021
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Thank you for reaching out! I can really hear that you want to make good conversation with your boyfriend on the phone. It’s ok to have questions about what is considered interesting to talk about and I can see you’re curious! You may want to ask yourself what kind of conversation you want across the phone. Serious? Light-hearted? There are many things you can talk about with your boyfriend on the phone. Something fun you guys can do is ask questions to learn more about each other through playing 21 questions. Some questions you can ask are: Where do you see yourself in 5 years? What are your life goals? What are your favorite pizza toppings? I think this is a great way to learn more about each other while having fun at the same time - it will also allow you to see if your goals and dreams are congruent with each other’s or see if you appreciate each other's differences. Are you excited about learning from each other?! You are welcome to reach out to one of our listeners or therapist's on our site for further support. All you can do is be you!
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Profile: JosmeFiling
JosmeFiling on Mar 31, 2021
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There are many topics that you can talk about with your boyfriend, such as history, movies, sports, family, social issues, food, hobbies, among others. But first, you must ask him what kinds of things he likes and from there then you can discover and talk about the topics that he told you he likes. :-)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 9, 2021
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Something in common to start the conversation, and if there is anything new to him or you, if there is any concern or interesting news around you. It depends on which subjects your boyfriend wants to share with you and he is willing to know you more. It's the interpersonal relationship, so if you can't find the right subject, you can as him what he wants to talk about too. If the subject is really not your type, then you can express your feeling in a polite way and try to find a common interest. By doing that, you and your boyfriend can know better each other. Hope this answer helps you.
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Anonymous on Apr 11, 2021
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There are so many different topics you can talk about with your boyfriend. Topics that can interest the both of you could be education, feelings, family, job opportunities, nature and etc. Talk about things that both of you have in common or things you both want to accomplish as a couple or as an individual. It is necessary to talk about all sort of things in relationship in order to get to know one even more. The more open communication you both as couple, the better the relationship will progress. Always make sure your partner is doing well and if there's anything on their mind.
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Anonymous on Apr 17, 2021
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You may say your wishes, your feelings, your last day. What do you think you've got the two together? And don't hesitate to wonder about the day with your boyfriend. You two should tell humorous moments, even the things that make you both sad.  To ask your boyfriend to hang out, 'd be a great idea. A romantic film tour, a dinner to mark your love date, or just a walk. And remember to be relaxed.  You love him, and he also loves you. Do not worry too much that you will not know what to say to your boyfriend because your love language is always flowing around the conversation.
Profile: usefulBeauty1208
usefulBeauty1208 on Apr 28, 2021
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You can talk about How was his day? What are you focusing on like what are their priorities? What are your plans for the future? Plan something like a date or a trip. Play games (you ll find end number of games) Discuss some shows(sitcoms are best to discuss) Tell Each Other Exactly How You Feel. Share Random Thoughts Talk About The Past Ask them about themselves like what are their likes and dislikes Chat About A New Hobby Admit To Embarrassing Moments What do they like about you? Who is your role model? What's your idea of a perfect day? About fear and phobias Things they regret doing. What are the things that upsets them. The list is too long...
Profile: JordanWalk101
JordanWalk101 on May 16, 2021
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If you start with their day or events of the current day and show a lot of interest, tons of topics naturally generate. Try to walk in their shoes! It could lead into hobbies, stories, family, their views, etc. What people say is a reflection of their mind. Second I do small talk topics and try to branch from there. Towards the beginning of the week always asking people how their weekend was, and towards the end of the week if they have plans for the weekend. If they aren't a weekend worker then just switch that to day off. If you are really stuck and aren't naturally making it work, I always read like a list of 100 ice breaker questions and go through them. Something that can be fun to do is do a personality quiz together if they are that kind of person. Some guys aren't much talkers though. Silence is okay in person but on the phone can be tough. If you keep running into dead ends I usually say "I'd love to talk to you more" or "I'd love to hear more stories from you about x" then "but I think I am going to go do this". I like to end it before it gets weird. A last save grace is to just open up about whatever is going on. I wouldn't unload problems but be like "I have been doing x or feeling x or am excited about x." And these things are always changing as your perspective is so these things can be reused in future convos. Plus you can gauge their interest by seeing if they remember what you offer. If they aren't giving back you should match their energy and not try so hard to make them generate convosation.
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Anonymous on May 19, 2021
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When in a relationship, it is important that there is a level of trust between both of you. If you truly trust your boyfriend, I think that you will be able to talk to him about anything, even if it is through your phone. Although this is the case, I also believe that there are certain topics where it would be better to discuss them in person rather than not the phone. These are the deeper, more serious discussions that have affect either one of you in a significant way. The reason for this is because they carry more importance which means that it might be better if they are discussed on the phone.
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1231Sageee1231 on Jun 11, 2021
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How lovely of a boyfriend he is, how caring sweet and charming he is. How much you love him, asking him what he did that day and then having laughs. I personally love laughing and joking with my boyfriend because he never understands any of the jokes, and he does the same back. We talk about our future, the future, ect. We love talking about and just telling each other how much we love one another, and I always ask if we are still looking for another companion in our relationship, and he always says yes. This was my answer! Bye bye
Profile: bubblyMusic8287
bubblyMusic8287 on Jun 13, 2021
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you can actually talk about anything and everything. it depends on the depth of your relationships and how comfortable with each other. once you have build that strong connection, you can start sharing about your dreams, your worries, your insecurities and much more. at one point, you could be talking about when you were in primary school and got your hair pulled out someone else or maybe your first period and how scared you were. you could talk about how you have grown as a person or you could talk about your favourite disney movies. you could talk about what you guys can do together or maybe what you guys don´t want each other to do. seriously, it all depends on the kind of relationship you have and how serious you are about it. it´s also about what you are comfortable sharing with each other and what is it that you would rather keep to yourself.
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