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What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?

Profile: nosleep1851
nosleep1851 on Jun 27, 2021
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I know talking on the phone with a significant other can be scary. I like to start off with small talk then relate to their answer. For example I would ask their favorite food. If they answered pizza, I would say something like, “Oh! I love pizza! I had it a few nights ago, but my dog ate it all.” Give him something to respond to! If he’s dry or you can’t think of something to say, ask yourself what advice would u give to your friend about her boyfriend on facetime. Putting itself in your own shoes can help you see the situation from a different perspective and aid you in coming up with the right path for you. Message me if you need anything! I would love to check in and see how this helps.
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Profile: wonderfullBeauty94
wonderfullBeauty94 on Sep 24, 2015
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You can start conversation about how his day is going so far, what has he ate, has he eaten, what he is up too? How he is feeling? What he is currently thinking about?
Profile: LinNH
LinNH on Oct 9, 2015
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I like to talk with my boyfriend about things that made me think of him, or things that I thought he might be interested in. I like to listen to NPR on the radio, and sometimes there's an article that just makes me think "Whoa!" and I have to know what he thinks about it. Sometimes I ask him silly things, too, like "What's one thing you learned today?" or "Did you have a moment that really made you smile today?" Those can make for good conversations, too!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 20, 2018
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You can always talk to him about how your day was and about what you did and about his day, or plans, or common interests
Profile: lifefighter1012
lifefighter1012 on Apr 22, 2018
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There are so many things you can talk about with him. You can tell him how you spent the day, or any plans you have or even about movies. You can even go to more deep conversations and talk about why this world is the way it is or why Donald Trump became president or anything like that lol its basically up to you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 25, 2018
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Talk about the things you experienced that day. Plan on things you guys want to do in the future or just talk about what you are currently doing.
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Anonymous on Jul 29, 2018
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You can talk about youar day and ask them about there day and that you miss them and want them beside you
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Anonymous on Jul 29, 2018
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Something you wanna share about yourself with him. You can tell him about your likes, dislikes and many things like that. You can ask about his interests, hobbies etc. Rest you can talk about your day and ask about his day. There are many lil things which can be discussed between two people who're in relationship. 😊
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 2, 2018
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Talk about how your days have been, or what exciting things you have coming up in either of your lives.
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Every couple communicates differently and that's totally fine! There's really no general rule or restriction to phone chats so long as you're both comfortable. If speaking on the phone with your significant other is a new experience, you can always start with quick check in calls and build from there. For example, you can call to confirm a plan or follow up on something he's recently told you about, like a job interview or a test. On your end, encourage him to call you about something that's been on your mind. Eventually, you could chat for longer amounts of time and reflect on the experience together. Another tip would be to keep conversations abstract and light. Discuss the day you had, or banter about the latest episode of your favourite show that you saw that week. If either one of you ends up preferring other methods of communication, that's ok too! Comfort is key and communication can't be forced. In that regard, you can talk about anything and everything if it makes you both happy.
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