Spying on ex's social media - since my breakup I can't stop from monitoring. Is that okay?
resourcefulUnicorns38
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Sep 23, 2016
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It is OK for the first couple weeks but after that you should really move on and let them go and find somebody else take your mind off your ex that's what I will do
Ishaa25
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Sep 23, 2016
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That is absolutely okay unless it doesn't affect you in a bad way. You can always check up on your ex and how he's choice has been degraded, Lol that makes me happy and i'm sure it will make you happy too. However, after a point it is meaningless to waste time on your ex who's probably forgotten your existence.
Anonymous
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Sep 23, 2016
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There's nothing /wrong/ with it, but it's not good for moving-on purposes. I would block his contacts, unfollow things, etc. Distance is the only way you can heal-- constant reminders do not work well. To let a scab heal, you can't pick at it
delightfulHand34
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Sep 24, 2016
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Everyone is guilty of a little stalking of maybe a crush but your ex I think maybe it's time to move past them especially if they are you're ex if the feeling if not mutual to reunite then move on you'll find someone else trust me for now just surround yourself with positive things
2cupsofteaa
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Sep 25, 2016
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It's not whether it's okay or not, more so that you're making it harder for yourself to get over your ex. Instead of monitoring social media, how about do something nice for yourself? Hang out with your friends? Staring at your laptop screen, or phone screen, is just prolonging your pain.
psychopsychologist1896
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Sep 25, 2016
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No it's not.. it makes you think about her/him and you should stop doing it.. it is important to stop spying him if you really want to move on
Anonymous
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Sep 30, 2016
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That's generally normal, but you shouldn't be doing that. Try blocking him, so that you don't see his posts and what not.
Anonymous
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Sep 30, 2016
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It's not ok, for either of you. In my experience it only keeps the hurt going. Letting that go, the 'spying', is one step closer to letting yourself heal from that hurt.
Anonymous
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Oct 2, 2016
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That is completely normal to do! It is not easy to completely stop thinking about your ex right after a breakup, but it helps to reduce how often you monitor them!!
crispAngel57
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Oct 15, 2016
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For a couple weeks/months its completely normal. But eventually you have to stop so you can move on with your life, and find someone new
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