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Spying on ex's social media - since my breakup I can't stop from monitoring. Is that okay?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 27, 2016
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So you recently broke up and now you feel the need to find out somehow what your ex is up to? Why do you think you are feeling like this?
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Profile: RayeSafeSpace
RayeSafeSpace on Jan 27, 2016
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Hey. Spying on ex's social media is tempting, but don't do it. Don't fall prey to temptation, especially if you want to get over them. Remember; while you are busy spying they are out living life! To get over the temptation of wanting to spy on them go out and have fun, do something entertaining. It will be the best thing, I promise :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 29, 2016
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No its not okay because its not healthy, yeah it can be tempting but it will hurt to find things you dont want to see
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Anonymous on Jan 30, 2016
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Well, to an outsider it may seem obsessive and even implying an un-severed attachment to your ex...
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 30, 2016
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No its not. Then whats the point of breakup. You had a breakup because what you wanted is peace. But by doing so you are simply worring about it. And by doing so you will only lead to an unpeacefull mind.
Profile: softedita
softedita on Jan 30, 2016
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Yes, it's okay to check up on their social media every once in awhile to see what they're up too. A lot of people do it!
Profile: BatWings89
BatWings89 on Jan 31, 2016
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How does it make you feel? How would you feel if someone did the same thing to you, assuming you didn't have any feelings anymore?
Profile: Daniela95
Daniela95 on Feb 3, 2016
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It's normal that we check out how our ex is doing from time to time just because this is a person who we once deeply cared about, but if this effects your everyday life, it's best to find someone to talk with about this.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 3, 2016
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you should not do it because what he does is none of your busness i did it once and i got pummeled k
Profile: HappyFrogger998
HappyFrogger998 on Feb 4, 2016
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It's going to make it a lot harder for you to move on from the relationship. It would be good for you to take a break from social media for a while and stop checking up on them.
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