Spying on ex's social media - since my breakup I can't stop from monitoring. Is that okay?
WhatColorWouldYouLikeToBe
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Jan 15, 2016
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There is nothing wrong with having curiosity, asking yourself "What´s up with her/him?". Continuously spying on someone´s media can and will only be harmful to you. Moving on will be significantly harder with constant reminders of the other´s life as it triggers emotions that we can't really control. Peek at your own risk but if it´s not going to help you better not even have the temptation and block or delete that person´s media; if you simply can't do it, ask a friend to do it for you, but one you can definitely trust.
Anonymous
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Jan 15, 2016
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I've done that too. Once you've fully moved on you won't feel the urge to anymore. Try working harder to focus on yourself, which is what's really important.
Anonymous
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Jan 15, 2016
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I think it's something that most people are guilty of after a relationship however it isn't particularly helpful or productive. Social media only shows what that person wants the world to see.
whimsicalBreeze39
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Jan 21, 2016
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No it is not. You wont move on if you keep doing so. Please either delete or block him to stop yourself.
Anonymous
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Jan 21, 2016
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No, it isn't. I understand maybe you went through a rough break up? Would you like to talk about that.
Anonymous
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Jan 22, 2016
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No! no! NO! its bad it shows you still have an attachment and its time to cut that string in half and stop it from growing longer!!
Anonymous
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Jan 22, 2016
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No. That is considered stalking spying is never a good nor right thing to do. It is very wrong and you could get caught.
Anonymous
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Jan 23, 2016
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Thats completely fine as you are not over the breakup. However, in time you must reduce the amount of spying as this can become unhealthy for you.
briaannasaurus
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Jan 24, 2016
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It's normal to want to see what your ex is doing but don't let it become a habit. Watching other people and envying their new life is unhealthy.
maskedanonymous
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Jan 27, 2016
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How long have you been separated? It'd be normal if you just broke up. It's part of the denial stage - the checking up on him/her. It wouldn't be normal if you broke up a couple of years ago, and you're still hung up on him/her.
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