Spying on ex's social media - since my breakup I can't stop from monitoring. Is that okay?
Anonymous
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Jan 6, 2016
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No, it is not okay but it is normal if you steal feel for him but, it might not help you from moving on
Anonymous
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Jan 6, 2016
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It is okay. It is natural. But if you want to move on, you should control yourself. Its best if you stop it or block him and get a better life.
daniellebee
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Jan 6, 2016
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It's ok if it's making you feel better. If you find yourself dwelling on the break up because of it, it probably isn't. Take a break for a week and see how you feel. If you find that seeing their posts is making you sad, consider unfollowing them. Your wellbeing comes first and you should do your best to worry about you instead of them.
HuntEthan
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Jan 6, 2016
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You can stop monitoring. Usually when this happens you're still hung up on this ex. What you need to do is get out there and get back on the horse again. Once you find someone new, that ex will go from the front of your mind to the back, or disappear completely.
simran14
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Jan 6, 2016
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this would just hurt your feelings and nothing more so you should try not to think about it....you can even block him so you can keep away from him
Anonymous
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Jan 8, 2016
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No, it is not okay.If the relationship ended, accept it and move on.You are better than a stalker and have much more important things to do with your life than stalk someone.Have some self-esteem!
Anonymous
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Jan 9, 2016
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I think it's okay, but it's not good for you. It just showes that you can't get over him and you want to know every single thing he is doing. You should let him go or at least try, and focus on other things that make you happy in your life. :)
GrowthMindset17
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Jan 10, 2016
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No you are only hurting yourself. There is a reason why it did not work out. Keep yourself distracted !
Anonymous
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Jan 13, 2016
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Well,it is okay until you create problems for your ex or yourself. And if you can't resist from viewing,better block them :P
exquisiteGrotto32
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Jan 13, 2016
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It's normal after a breakup, I'm sure everybody does this but it is best to try and let them go. It won't help to be obsessing over their life, when you could go out and have your own fun, and not worry about what your ex is doing. I would say try and stop spying on their account and to just have your own fun 😊
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