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Spying on ex's social media - since my breakup I can't stop from monitoring. Is that okay?

Profile: helpfulIcicle27
helpfulIcicle27 on Dec 23, 2015
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you know the answer.. is it helping you to move on or it's hurting your..you are the best exprats on you..choose the right path
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Profile: GenuineSmile
GenuineSmile on Dec 24, 2015
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It's definitely natural to see what your loved one is doing. Ex or not, it's okay. It is recommended that you do try to move on. It's not good to stay in the past :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 24, 2015
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I understand why youre doing that but you need to stop it. you wont be able to move on if you keep on doing that. it will hurt you more. find the courage to stop it soon.
Profile: rrosie
rrosie on Dec 25, 2015
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Spying isn't wrong, although it blocks you from fully going through the moving on process, which can also prevent you from accepting the breakup and accepting change overall
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 25, 2015
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Personally I understand why you would want to look but stalking them everyday is something I wouldn't want to do.
Profile: Nicoll
Nicoll on Dec 25, 2015
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No, it's not okay, you need to go over breakup, but this is not the way you do it. You need to understand that you're no longer together and move on. Go out with your friends or find a new hobby, you can do whatever you want and it will get better, i'm sure abou that :)
Profile: SacredSimplicity1011
SacredSimplicity1011 on Dec 25, 2015
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Personally, I think it isn't but I am not one to judge since I've been in a similar situation. It has only made me more upset and broke my heart more than it was already broken. My best advice would be not to indulge
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 26, 2015
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It is indeed hard not to do so. But it may effect your progress of moving on and finding someone new.
Profile: alwaysbelieve8
alwaysbelieve8 on Dec 26, 2015
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If I say it's not okay you are still not gonna stop..by now you might have got it as habit but you should know the only thing that does to you is hurt..so it's better not to let something lost, haunt you for its broken purpose. .let go and so you will feel better and more alive.. bcoz it's not worth your time.. take care ☺
Profile: Cass14idy
Cass14idy on Dec 26, 2015
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I do it. As long as you're not harnessing them I think it's ok. But you need to move on. Maybe it's you're self saying your not over him
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