Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?

In most cases, yes you should. He deserves to know what is going on and how the relationship between you two is going. On the other hand, if you are worried that he will harm you or do anything to you, then I suggest u go to the police and tell them the predicament you are in, that you don't feel you can safely tell your boyfriend that you cheated. Police are very good and they will work out what to do. Other then that if you aren't in danger, I suggest you tell him, because he deserves to know.

I think that you should. Honesty is an important part of a relationship. If you want this relationship to prosper and if you want things to work out then i suggest you tell him. It may hurt and things may not turn out the way that you would like but at least you are being "real" with him and telling him you messed up. Trust is also another important thing for a relationship to have. You may have to earn his trust back but being HONEST helps as well. I hope that this has helped you in at least some way.

IF this is someone that you love I strongly suggest that you do tell him. Keeping that secret is actually worse than the cheating itself. It will be up to him decide where to go from there. You likely don't want to tell him because you are afraid of losing him. If it were me, I'd rather you tell me to be honest. It's up to you, but yes you should tell him at least that is my opinion. You have nothing without trust. Tell him before someone else does. The worse feeling in the world is to find out from another person. hope it works out for you. you can reach out to me for support if you'd like.

You got two scenarios: 1-If you want the relationship to continue then you have to tell him the truth , at the beginning it will be hard for him to forgive you BUT he must know that you told him the truth because you didnt want to hide it ,because you really regret and you want to fix things between you , beside that you should make things clear why did you that and why you will never do it again Then it will be his choice, 2-The other scenario that you might hide it and he will know sooner or later the truth and he definitely will break up with you

Honesty, while scary sometimes, often leads to the most clear and hopefully best outcomes for any situation. It might be painful to tell the truth and the consequences might be hard to deal with but in the long run I believe everyone will suffer less than if a secret is kept. Also, I find most humans to be surprisingly compassionate, understanding, and forgiving. If you come at it from a place of authenticity, open to exploring why you cheated, and also open to genuinely hearing how your boyfriend feels, recognising his emotions...things might resolve themselves in healthier way. It takes a lot of courage.

Cheating has so many reasons, look for the reasons why you have cheated on him in the first place and try to makeup your mind. Everyone deserves to know the truth specially when it comes to something important like cheating , so I think it's the best for you to tell him you cheated on him , even if he breaks up with you, you did the right thing because again, everyone deserves to know the truth so tell him and instead of making excuses apologize to him for what you did , Good luck hope you'll figure it out soon

Every relationship should be transparent for better future. Holding a dark secret for a person who really loves an values you won't be fair for him. Of course, admitting the truth of cheating won't be easy as well but it is the right way to carry on a true relationship. Everybody does a mistake. When you are so emotional and you want to look for help from your lover but he is busy at that moment. But someone always welcome your questions and listen to your words. Time by time, you guys get closer and things happen. Another possible scenario of cheating is when you get drunk and things happen. What was done is done, friend. You know the most about who is the most valuable person for you. My suggestion for this question will be " Yes, please tell him at the right time". Life is a lot better living with transparency with no regrets.

Cheating on someone is obviously not being loyal in a relationship, where your heart should only be in one place - with your boyfriend. Whatever the reasons behind your actions, they aren't right and I do think your boyfriend deserves to know, no matter what the consequences are. Maybe you are scared that he will end the relationship, and I can't promise that he won't, but if he does then that is a justified reaction and it's your choice where you go from there. Maybe he will make the relationship work but you would have to prove your loyalty. Good luck. Tell your boyfriend you cheated.

One should always be true to oneself before others. Everyone commits a mistake and the sooner one accepts it, the better it becomes, I would not give you an advice on it but would certainly ask you to tell him about what you did so that you both can take ample amount of time, decide on what has to be done and don't end up on bad terms. The world has a lot of hatred already, let's not build up more. Have patience and tell him. You know him the best, you know what will happen. All the best. Accept your mistake, it will be so difficult for him but he is not to be blamed. Have a good day. :)

You should tell your boyfriend that you cheated, it's only fair to him and yourself. Honesty and communication is the most important in a relationship. If you want to continue on your relationship with your boyfriend he deserves the truth, and you shouldn't avoid it. Don't beat yourself up for it though, we all make mistakes but we forgive those we truly love and care for in whatever they do. Don't repeat those same mistakes, and learn how to forgive and accept yourself. If this continues to bother you, it's best you tell your boyfriend and talk about it and decide from there where you want the relationship to go together.