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Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 3, 2018
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It’s always best to be open and honest. Keeping things in will only cause guilt and shame which can really take a toll on your life. The best thing to do in your situation is to be honest but not be surprised with the reaction you receive. We all make mistakes, some are more forgiving of those mistakes than others.
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Profile: Gentlerabbit7539
Gentlerabbit7539 on Aug 3, 2018
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Now I do not know your boyfriend or the situation; however, I think that you should definitely tell your boyfriend. Keeping a secret and harboring guilt will hurt your relationship, him, and you. Instead, find a good time to calmly discuss what happened and how bad you feel. He might leave or be upset, but that is human nature. I'm sure it is better in the long run to tell him now.
Profile: YouWillBeFine31
YouWillBeFine31 on Aug 8, 2018
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now ideally you should. But if you want to continue relationship with your boyfriend and you don't have any intention to see the other person any more, please consider advantages and disadvantages of being truthful. Its appreciative that you are feeling guilty. But think of its consequences on your relationship. However if you do not want to continue with your boyfriend, it is always good to come clean and give them the right reason of breaking up. This gives better closure to things.
Profile: ElHelper
ElHelper on Aug 8, 2018
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Yes. if i were you, id wanna make sure your the one to tell him and not the other person or their friends. PLus, itll take off a heavy weight off your cheast.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 9, 2018
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Yes, it’s very important to share with your significant other that you had an affair. The longer it’s kept secret the worse of an impact it’ll have.
Profile: Niley
Niley on Aug 9, 2018
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To have a clean Karma, better be true and let destiny do the best. Maybe if you discussed this with him, he will nderstand your situation
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 10, 2018
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Yes, because in the long run you feel really guilty. It's better for him to know now than later. I hope this helps you make your decision:)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 12, 2018
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Yes. Better late than never. The longer you keep it from him, the more hurt he'll be when you do tell him or if he happens to find out.
Profile: PaintedLyrics
PaintedLyrics on Aug 15, 2018
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As the saying goes, honesty is the best policy. You don't want him to find out on his own. Forgiveness is given more often to those who admit their mistakes rather than hide them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 15, 2018
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As much as you don't want to admit that you have cheated, if you tell you may feel a sense of relief. Even if things don't end well you can at least say that you were honest.
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