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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 21, 2016
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If you think he/she really loves you and has the same feeling for you as you have for him/her, it's not a wrong decision to go back. But it's important to know that the person really has feelings for you.
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Profile: LittleDesii
LittleDesii on Sep 21, 2016
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It depends on a lot of things. If you feel like the relationship was positive, and ended over something silly, then definitely go back to them. But it's always best to find someone to talk to about the relationship first - to get everything out in the air. Sometimes, there's a lot you might not be able to see.
Profile: lacedaniellehelp17
lacedaniellehelp17 on Sep 23, 2016
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No. don't go back. If it didn't work out the first time, most likely it won't the next. Don't go back to a dead relationship.
Profile: Mikzwax
Mikzwax on Sep 23, 2016
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if he / her has respected and loved you enough. And are not feeling the same as you felt around that person. then whynot?
Profile: Purpleauroras
Purpleauroras on Sep 25, 2016
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The answer is not as easy as a yes or no. Sometimes what we want might be harmful for us. There was a reason you walked away from him/her. That reason could resurface and it probably would. think about why you left in the first place. Think about whether they want you to come back or now. Find out if they have changed. Talk to them about all this first. Then decide.
Profile: Hope2theRescue
Hope2theRescue on Sep 25, 2016
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The question is did you break up with him/her or did they break up with you? What was the reason? Is this person kind ? Did they care about you? Do you love them for who they are? Do they love you for who you are?
Profile: Gracism
Gracism on Sep 28, 2016
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If they hurt you in any way deliberately, then no. If it was a small accident, maybe. It all depends on circumstances really.
Profile: ali1112
ali1112 on Sep 29, 2016
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I think that is a pretty broad question. I believe it depends on your ability to forgive and their ability and desire to make things right or vice versa. Love is a choice, not a feeling, so you can choose to return to this person if you want to. Asking yourself several questions will be important. Is this a healthy relationship or do we both have a desire for it to become healthy? Do we have the same goals and values in life? Make-ups and breaks up can be like riding an emotional roller coaster which is not good for anyone. If you both desire to work things out and make a commitment to being involved in a healthy relationship than maybe going back could be considered.
Profile: Froggy97
Froggy97 on Sep 30, 2016
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Depend on the situation. If he/she give a hint like they're still in love with you, and you still love them, why not? But if long time ago, your relationship is abusive,think wisely. And if he/she cheated before, again think wisely. We dont want to experience same bad things twice.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 8, 2016
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Usually this should be a big no especially if you care more than them. They will see it as a power shift subconsciously and they will be in control. You may also not be missing them or need them, but you're missing the feeling of having someone and the idea of it. It is hard to remove someone from a mental pedestal but once you do you will realise how they really are. It's never the same after a breakup and it always ends harder the second time. You need to work on someone else and getting them out of your life.
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