Should I go back to him/her?

Well, this is a very difficult question! I think that everything depends on your relationship, its cons, and its pros. Also, analyzing how and when did you break up will help you make a decision. I understand that you may feel torn between your emotions - the best way is to focus on them and treat them as a roadsign in making your decision :) Relationships and breakups are very difficult things and the only answer to going back to her/him lies within you and what do you exactly feel. I can recommend you two guides on 7Cups about your situation: 1. https://www.7cups.com/breakup-advice/ and 2. https://www.7cups.com/help-managing-emotions/ Wish you all the best in the world!

I am so sorry to hear that you are struggling with an ex. However, as hard as it can be to stay away from someone you have loved and still love, you have to do what is best for you. if you feel that they are going to hurt or take advantage of you then you do not deserve that and it could be best to stay away from them. i’d you go back to someone and they end up hurting you again you will have to start over with your pain instead of healing and recovering. I hope this helps!

if you go back, you might be hurt again, but if you feel like they are the one that you love than you can do that. if you love them than you should go to them. is there a reason you miss them? what was so special about that one person? I hope you can find your happiness again if you go back to them. I will support and continue talking to you whatsoever.

It depends on, if the person treats you good and theres no bad stuff you can choose if you want to or not. If the person hurts you, I prefer that you dont go back to that person since they can hurt you even more since you put trust in them. Its definitely your choice if you want to go back to them but please be careful because you will never know things that could happen when you trust someone, anyone can betray yo and so on and so on, i wish you luck with the person

Perhaps study your attachment style first and try to journal and work through things with self help therapy books to realise what you're true potential is and what you deserve within your relationships. It isn't easy being on your own after being in a relationship. Relationships offer so much intimacy, companionship and trust if they are right, but if someone is making you feel insecure, or unworthy of their love, perhaps it's time to put matters into some perspective and work through the issues that need resolving first. No relationship is perfect, but the dynamics can change and usually do after time goes on, so understanding the various events that occurred and shared experiences may help you learn more about your needs and wants. Relationships are amazing when there is commitment and love, often spouses find that they are making sacrifices without second thought. You prioritise someone because you love them and love from a good person, is the greatest blessing of them all.

The main questions here are: do they make you feel safe? Happy? Are they someone you gel with? Do you feel like you can be your true, authentic self with them? Or do they cause you pain? Do they consistently hurt you? Do you feel unsafe when you're around them? Do you feel you have to hide parts of you to make them accept you? Context is so important - if you separated for a reason, consider that reason carefully. Is it something that can and has been worked upon? If they have ever laid a hand on you, or made you feel unsafe, or even if they just don't make you happy, do not look backwards, and keep moving forwards.

Before even considering the question of, "Should I go back to him/her?" You need to ask yourself: "Why did we break up in the first place?" Once you ask yourself that question, you'll find yourself realizing that perhaps there were enough issues going on to put you on the path to separation in the first place. At the end of the day, you don't want to find yourself pursuing a relationship that was tearing at the seams. You are always better off pursuing a relationship that fosters your mental and emotional growth. And odds are, a relationship that managed to fall apart in the first place won't be that positive relationship you need.

Depending on the situation, whether you guys have been through a rocky breakup or ended things on good terms. Sometimes we end up missing them or so we think. Sometimes we end up missing the idea of someone who is extremely toxic because we become blindsided by the bare minimum amount of respect received. Sometimes we paint this picture in our minds of the person we picture them to be or who we want them to be that we end up forgetting how it affected us. On the other hand, if you think it is the right decision to and that you guys took the desired amount of time away from each other, talk things through. Give things time to settle in and gradually work your back together. Good luck!

The fact here is not 'Should I go back to them'? It is, 'Will that be good enough for my Mental health?', 'Would that Heal me from past?'. This is what necessary, it's not just how you feel from heart, it also passively includes your mental health. You can love someone so much, but roses do have thorns, don't they? This is where you should get yourself clear and choose the right decision to make your life better and it is okay to be confused but at the end it is you and your decisions that matters :)

That's a question that no one can answer except yourself. Anyway, the fact that you are thinking about it and asking about it makes me think that you believe it is not a good idea to do so. Relationships are really complicated and everyone has a whole world inside their heads, it's imposible to know what they think if they don't tell you directly. You can talk to me anytime you want, I really know how it feels not to know what to do, what is the best for you. I think that you should do what you think will make you TRULY happy. Maybe you can make a list with the good and bad parts about getting back together, that has helped me a lot. I wish you the best and I hope that everything gets better soon, lots of love