Should I go back to him/her?
Momat93
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May 23, 2016
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If you left a person you should first consider the reason why you seperated and think to yourself if that person will do it again how will you react to it... will it be something you want or not..
SimplyAshley
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Sep 13, 2016
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All I'm saying is, if they did something to break your heart, you don't deserve them. That's my opinion.
Greatlistener87
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Sep 15, 2016
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Depending on why are you going back to that person and what was the history behind you leaving that person.
Anonymous
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Dec 20, 2019
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Going back to him/her is subjective to the situations. Yes if :
1. He/she is genuinely serious about the relationship.
2. Both of you can forgive and progress together in the relationship.
3. He/She changes for the better.
4. There is a possibility for a healthy relationship.
5. He/She believes in accepting your strengths and flaws.
6. Nobody is dominant in the relationship.
7. You feel ready to be back together again.
8. Both parties believe in honoring each others’ commitment in the relationship.
9. Both parties are willing to compromise when dealing with tricky situations.
10. He/she offers stability emotionally, physically and spiritually in the relationship.
Anonymous
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Jul 6, 2015
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I would not go back to him/her, try to forget about then and then try to move on. Try to keep occupied with friends and family and then this person will slip out of your mind subconsciously!
Brittneym101
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Jul 23, 2015
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Depending on the situation it's hard to say whether or not you should go back to him/her. Let your heart and mind make that decision, nobody else. After all it is your life and your decision so just do what you feel like is best for you.
nrigaud
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Apr 5, 2016
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This all depends on how it ended. If you ended due to a serious reason (abuse, fighting, etc.) then no, you should not. If you ended simply because you weren't ready for commitment or you were worried about your parents but now don't care, then I'm not going to say you should, but it might not hurt to go back to them.
JD821
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Sep 15, 2016
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It depends on the factors, if they lied, cheated, etc. Then no, I would never recommend that. If they truly loved you as a person and best friend, knew everything about you, fit very well, then yes. I would consider it, but the thing is you need to go into the relationship and truly see if the match is genuine, don't go back if there aren't any mutual feelings there.
Anonymous
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Sep 17, 2016
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No one is able to answer this for you. Only you will know what you want and what you can handle in a relationship. If this is aligned to what you want in life then go ahead, if not- reexamine.
PuppyLove13
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Sep 18, 2016
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Not if it will change you for the worse or if it will only cause you pain.. Your life is your priority, not his.. Not if he has hurt you..
Anonymous
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Sep 21, 2016
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If you think he/she really loves you and has the same feeling for you as you have for him/her, it's not a wrong decision to go back. But it's important to know that the person really has feelings for you.
LittleDesii
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Sep 21, 2016
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It depends on a lot of things. If you feel like the relationship was positive, and ended over something silly, then definitely go back to them. But it's always best to find someone to talk to about the relationship first - to get everything out in the air. Sometimes, there's a lot you might not be able to see.
lacedaniellehelp17
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Sep 23, 2016
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No. don't go back. If it didn't work out the first time, most likely it won't the next. Don't go back to a dead relationship.
Mikzwax
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Sep 23, 2016
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if he / her has respected and loved you enough. And are not feeling the same as you felt around that person. then whynot?
Purpleauroras
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Sep 25, 2016
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The answer is not as easy as a yes or no. Sometimes what we want might be harmful for us. There was a reason you walked away from him/her. That reason could resurface and it probably would. think about why you left in the first place. Think about whether they want you to come back or now. Find out if they have changed. Talk to them about all this first. Then decide.
Hope2theRescue
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Sep 25, 2016
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The question is did you break up with him/her or did they break up with you? What was the reason? Is this person kind ? Did they care about you? Do you love them for who they are? Do they love you for who you are?
Gracism
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Sep 28, 2016
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If they hurt you in any way deliberately, then no. If it was a small accident, maybe. It all depends on circumstances really.
ali1112
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Sep 29, 2016
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I think that is a pretty broad question. I believe it depends on your ability to forgive and their ability and desire to make things right or vice versa. Love is a choice, not a feeling, so you can choose to return to this person if you want to. Asking yourself several questions will be important. Is this a healthy relationship or do we both have a desire for it to become healthy? Do we have the same goals and values in life? Make-ups and breaks up can be like riding an emotional roller coaster which is not good for anyone. If you both desire to work things out and make a commitment to being involved in a healthy relationship than maybe going back could be considered.
Froggy97
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Sep 30, 2016
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Depend on the situation. If he/she give a hint like they're still in love with you, and you still love them, why not? But if long time ago, your relationship is abusive,think wisely. And if he/she cheated before, again think wisely. We dont want to experience same bad things twice.
Anonymous
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Oct 8, 2016
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Usually this should be a big no especially if you care more than them. They will see it as a power shift subconsciously and they will be in control.
You may also not be missing them or need them, but you're missing the feeling of having someone and the idea of it. It is hard to remove someone from a mental pedestal but once you do you will realise how they really are. It's never the same after a breakup and it always ends harder the second time. You need to work on someone else and getting them out of your life.
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