Should I go back to him/her?

You should never get back with him/her unless you know for a fact that they have changed. If they have changed then it could be good to get back together. It could be that that person changes because of their mistakes with you and realizes that they need to be a better person, and change. But then, not everyone changes or truly changes. I would say that if you have broken up with said person twice at least, then you probably shouldn't be getting back together with them. If they don't change after the first time of breaking up, then there really isn't a chance that they will change after the second or the third.

It depends on what the person done. If you feel like they have changed the way they was then I would take the chance. How do you feel about the situation. If you do not feel comfortable with them anymore or you feel like you won't get anywhere then do not pressure yourself into the relationship as you don't want to feel yourself neglecting your partner. You need to make sure you feel happy and want to be with the person. Follow your heart and you will feel like your on the right path. Talk to them about how your feeling.

What made you two split up in the first place? It's a great thing to give second chances to both you and him/her, as long as you feel safe, happy, and you feel like there is a potential to learn from your old experiences with that person. Sometimes it's good to discuss things through with them, whereas at other times it's best to let go. If you do feel like a misunderstanding is cleared, and it feels right to go back, then go ahead! If this keeps repeating, then you can always go on and find new people you might find settling and right for you :)

If they effort to get back together with me then I will give it a chance. Relationship is a teamwork between a couple. If your partner is abusive it is best to just let it go and move on. You have to think about yourself first before considering him/her. If the relationship is still worth fighting for the go right ahead but if you think you’re better off without him or her then move on. Easy to say than done but taking things slowly and making sure is the best thing to do. Always use your mind first then your emotions after.

Depends on what him/her mean in your life and what the pros and cons are to reattaching yourself to this person. Was this relationship healthy? Did it bring value into your life? Or honestly was it toxic, draining? You always want to be honest with yourself with the reasons of having people around you, are they for my own personal means or are they actually meaningful. You matter, always remember that, your health matter, physically and mentally and if you are not careful people come in and either build these parts of you up, or tear you down. Be cautious and vigilant always with your heart.

Before you ask the question, what is it that you want out of the relationship? And if it is worth going through it with this person. If you decide to go back to him/her make sure both of you establish some clear boundaries. In other words, what starts with you and what ends with you individually. Having boundaries and clear communication is so important when it comes to rekindling a relationship. Also, it is important for you to understand your worth as an individual. Knowing who you are as a person and what type of person deserves your time and energy. A toxic person does not deserve your time and energy.

Contemplating returning to a old relationship is a common thought you can have; it is okay for this to cross your mind. However, it isn't up to anybody else to tell you what you should/should not do. It's important to clarify in your mind that YOU are the only expert of your experience, with emotions and thinking which nobody can take away from you. You can try to reflect on your past love, how it began, why it ended, and—from this thorough thought process—decide if it's worth the time, effort, and commitment to relight the fire with your former partner. Do what you have to do... for you. :)

It's from analysis that you will look at your life and make a personal decision where you're responsible of the choice that you make. This is in order no to blame any person for you're the one to live the life. Look at the pros and cross of the choice and make sure you look at the motives why you're opting for that choice. Ask yourself is it selfish motives or for the common good. Am I ready to embrace and face the consequences of my choice with no blame? Owning our choices is very important as when challenges comes I will face them with courage. This is why the choice depends on individual responsibility.

You may go back only if you think it's worth it, if you think it will be good for your future, matches with what you want to pursue and other different reasons like if the person isn't toxic and is welcoming and understanding etc. Being decisive is sometimes important. If you think there's no point in going back and that everything will be back to normal then there's actually no point. Rest you know yourself better than anyone else. Hence, decide for yourself wisely. Just remember, there's no right or wrong thing to do. We learn either ways :)

Can I ask for more information about this topic? Try thinking about why you are no longer together both positively and the less positive things. Maybe write down them and see in visual more than thinking. This could be a huge help to get more understanding of the situation. Also think about why you are feeling this way in both again positive and less positive reasons. Also have you tried speaking to a friend or relatives about how you are feeling? Having a option from a person who is not feeling this way, may help you a lot. I’m sorry upi feel like this but this feeling is expected and felt in everyone at some point in life, also it’s a hard situation to think straight and understanding what you want, but you will make the right decision for you. You clearly care about them and shows, so try understand it may take time but you will do what’s best for you