Should I go back to him/her?

Relationships and love are always messy and have no set rules. Nobody but you can tell how you’re feeling. The only thing people can do is give advice but at the end of the day it’s your heart and feelings so follow them. For starters it’s important to remember why the relationship ended in the first place. Don’t lose sight of what was wrong but also keep in mind the good times. Also make sure you’ve expressed this desire to get back together with your ex. Taking into account their feelings is very important, but so are yours. If you choose to go back make sure you don’t settle for anything but the world you deserve. If you expect less you’ll get it; so do not settle. Furthermore make sure you are open and are willing to change for the better as well. But at the end of the day if you love them and they love you, go for it. Because they make you happy and that’s all that matters.

Returning to an ex is a difficult decision that varies case by case. Look to why you two broke up in the first place - was communication a major issue, or was loyalty in question? What ultimately was your downfall? These factors might indicate repeat behavior that you want to avoid. It is true that people can change, but giving your ex a chance to prove that before you get back together may be best. If you're still not sure, talk to friends or trusted loved ones and ask for a second opinion. Sometimes they will see the characteristics and tendencies that you miss. In short, it's up to you, but be wary!

Follow the path that you believe makes you the happiest. At the end of the day we gotta do everything we can for that pursuit because you are what matters. If you have second thoughts about them or the relationship than it’s worth taking your time to think through what it is you’re looking for. As intense as love feels, especially in the moment - you’ll always have more than enough time to change your mind about path choices, and whether or not you even need to be with someone to be happy. Life is worth waiting for, and good things do come to those who wait.

I believe that people have the potential to change and I even met such people in life. But based on experience, most of us don't change. The older we get, the more fixed we get in our thought process, way of living etc. So to answer the question, my answer is NO. Until and unless the only reason for the separation was due to an unavoidable circumstance, I doubt there is any benefit in investing back in a relationship that didn't work. I also believe that we should never live life with regrets. Personally, I try to give my best to all emotional relationships. So turning back is never an option, no matter how nostalgic I might feel at times. And as someone once said, "this too shall pass".

really depends what you are going back too? is it a bad relationship, abusive or just happy. make a list of all what went wrong the first time and talk to the other person. see if can be worked out and if its worth it . the most imporatnat thing is to be happy in life. weather it be with this person or not. if its something small that can be fixed then maybe try again. but remember it has to make you happy . life is about living to the fullest and happiness.

Whether or not you should go back to someone depends on the situation. Anybody that puts you in the danger of your life that is considered to me self harmful situation talks acceleration and you always deserve better alone. However some people can get stressed out and need a separate and then Yorkville when they get the chance to have some time apart and then there's this people that can never get along and separate for good. make sure that you go back to somebody who is not a toxic person and they also pros and cons of what made The Break-Up happen is always good to write down and then see which way that this would go if you went back as happiness is not easy and you deserve the best. As you only get to live once and you should a name for a positive happy life as it were the way worth it and you deserve it as well as the other person.

When you ask this question, think back to your relationship with him/her. When you were together, did you feel happy or did you feel unhappy? That is a key factor. If you were happy, think about after you guys weren't together, did you feel like you were happier when you were together or did you feel happier when you weren't? Sometimes it may feel like you really want to go back with them but if you think deeply about it, you will know your answer. If that doesn't help, think about it for a longer period of time, then come back to the same questions and think about it again.

If something didn't work out, there's a reason. You will hurt yourself more if you force someone to love you. Instead of going backward move forward. Focus on what makes you as a person happy and what you can do to better yourself. Learn how to love yourself unconditionally. One day someone will enter your life and give you everything you ever wanted and you'll never have to wonder if they truly love you. It is not worth settling, and even if you believe that he/she was the one what is meant to be will be. You will find something that you'll never have to leave in the first place.

I have come to learn that there's a reason it didn't work out. Even if they say they'll treat you better, they should have done that before you left. Take this time to grow yourself and take the time to truly learn who you are as a person. Buy a new book, start a new painting, buy a gym membership, go for a walk. Try new things to distract you from the hurt and slowly you'll realize that you don't need him/her to function and you can live a beautiful life all on your own. Once you're able to do that, the right person will walk into your life and make it extraordinary.

You ended things with him/her for a reason. You need to ask yourself if you're ready to go through that again or even if you want to go through all that again and if that will be fair to you and them both, and if you can let go of what happened and just be in the present, and not bring up what happened in the past. You need to decide how much you invest into that relationship emotionally, as it will be affecting you and your partner both and you need to be thinking about what will be good for both of you /,before deciding to go back to them.