Should I go back to him/her?

There are very few reasons you should go back to him/her. One of which is if it was simply bad timing on both ends but both have feeling for each other. But there is almost always a really good reason you left them. Before reentering a relationship, ask yourself why you left them in the first place, reevaluate their pros and cons. Even if your ex says they miss you and still love you, think hard on your previous relationship. And if they broke up with you, put into consideration why they left you and if they still might consider that reason again.

Taking away all the other factors such as whether your partner still feels the same way, it really depends on you. If you’re going back to your partner for companion or to fill a void he or she left, I think you may want to reconsider! Think of why you guys separated in the first place and think about whether this issue can potentially arise again in the future. You wouldn’t want to leave him or her again and again in the future! I feel that these are the few things to consider before going back to someone - whether the reason for leaving could be worked out and whether you still share the same feelings for him or her. All the best!

The answer to this question is dependent on so many factors. However, the most important thing is this: Does this person make you happy? If your answer isn't immediately yes, then you should probably look for someone else. Over the years, I have learned that a lot of people are scared to be alone. While it seems frightening to not have someone whom you can rely on 24/7 , it is also important to remember that you should not be dependent on someone else to feel fulfilled and happy. It is important to develop your own sense of worth and confidence and then you should find someone who loves you for who you are.

About comeback to Ex's, that's something that I wouldn't personally do with some of then, case each case is a case on the subject that refers to "why we broke up". In a general way I'v really learn how to appreciate the idea that I should not be looking for people in my past because that way I don't see new people with I could have a better chance on having a good relationship. In cases of cheating is what I was referring that I would be impossible for me to comeback with the person... But in cases on something such as maturity and these kind of traces that can change with the experience. I think a second chance may be worth it.

It actually depends on what happened that you both drift off from each other. If it was a small argument like for nothing serious and he/ she is regretting it, you might give it a second chance. But if it a major one like you've been abused and other related things like that, I would say don't, even tho he/ she is regretting it because you won't be able to guarantee that you won't go through that again. Some might even say that you love him/her but you should make yourself a priority, like loving yourself should matter the first.

Lets be very honest here. You left them for some very good reasons. Be it they were abusive or manipulative or you just down right lost feelings. It could also be they cheated multiple times or were talking to other people. The reason is there and just because there sad or want you back doesn't mean you should just take them back with no doubt. Remember they are an ex for a reason. Why go back to the way things where. You would be going back to the same black and white routine of arguments and unhappiness. The thought of going back with them shouldn't even exist.

It's really up to the individual if you both still care for each other then go for it but if there were serious issues like domestic abuse or verbal abuse or you felt unsafe in the relationship then you should not go back to a place you could get hurt.You love seeing this person's name light up on your phone. You would do anything to see him or her genuinely smile. or stuff like that you probably still love the person and if it a genuine love and then you should at least try if you both feel the same way

Well, to be honest, that depends on the situation. Why are you not with them at the moment? Was it mutual? Was it a fight? Did something happen? I would say, if they were not good to you, it is not worth it. If they really and truly have changed, that really depends on if you are ready to move on a give a second chance. Second chances are so beautiful, and I truly think are worth it... BUT only if you and them are ready to move on; sometimes, history repeats itself, othertimes, you or them may have grown.

Should you? I've asked this question so many times to so many people. Should I go back to him? Should I not? Would it be smart to do that? Would it be not? I did that for a while until I really sat by myself and thought about it. A lot of people told me not to. Everyone said that once it's over, it's over. If he could break it off with me just like that, why should I take him back? They tell me that I should move on and that I should forget about him. That even if it hurts, it's something that I have to do. I don't think they're wrong. I say that after a break up, you should move on! But what if they want you back? What do you do then? When I got the chance to think by myself and for myself, I learned what I really wanted. I focused on what I wanted for myself and what I think is best for me instead of what other people wanted for me. Of course making the decision of going back to him/her depends on how the relationship ended in the first place. If it was toxic, I say you shouldn't. But if this was a healthy relationship and that the breakup was inevitable, why not? If you want go back, why shouldn't you? Think for yourself and what you think will benefit you most. Don't ask other people if you should because only you know the full story. Only you know if you should go back or not. What do you really want?

Most of the time whenever you break up with someone it means that it was bad enough for you to want out of the relationship. The best thing to do is look back at the situation and see if the good outweighed the bad and vice versa. If the good didn't outweigh the bad or you're unsure, don't go back to a possibly toxic person. The next step would be to focus on you and move forward. Come to love yourself and enjoy being alone for a little bit, learn how to function by yourself. Don't go back to someone you left or someone that didn't see your worth and decided to leave you.