Should I go back to him/her?
Anonymous
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Jan 3, 2019
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This answer lies within your wants, and needs as a human being. You would have to ask yourself if you want to go back with him/her. I understand how it feels to be put on that spot where you are faced with a incredible decision regarding your relationship with someone. You also have to ask yourself what made you drift away from him/her. If you feel that you could go back to them, and fix things with them, and have a good relationship with them, I would encourage you to go back to him/her. If you need someone to talk to, myself and the other great listeners with be greatful to have you. Have a wonderful day.
Anonymous
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Jan 13, 2019
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Hmmm, It depends entirely on your own personal experience, however if you broke up with them for a reason back then, then it’s most likely that if you go back to them the reason will cole up again and your time and patience that was used in trying to restore the relationship will all be for nothing. Finding someone you are comparable with might take time but you are worth it and are deserving of respect, dignity and kindness and if someone didn’t show you that in the past the chances are they won’t show you it this time, either.
Danielle1975
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Jan 27, 2019
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I always see it as you break up with someone for a reason whatever the reason is. it is never truly worth going back. I tried it once and the spark was no longer there I just felt awkward but everyone is their own person and it is all on personal preference but everything happens for a reason and you clearly broke up for a certain reason. I'd just ask yourself is this person really worth it? if they are give it a shot but don't hurt or emotionally drain yourself in the process because it isn't worth it to lose yourself in the process
Wittie96
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Feb 22, 2019
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Usually when I am pondering that question I stop and think of the reasons why I left. Is it worth going back to? Does this person help you be successful and support you? Try writing a list of pros and cons so you can have all your reasons of leaving and staying right in front of you. This helps me decide what is the correct path to take. In the end it is your decision and no one knows your situation better than you do. Good luck with whatever you choose. and have a nice ay. I'm here if you need to talk.
Allieson
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Mar 9, 2019
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This depends on the relationship itself. You have to ask yourself some questions. Was it healthy for you? Did you guys have a good time together? How often did you argue? Were they ever physically or mentally abusive to you? Did they look through your phone and control where you went and what you did? Did your friends and family have concerns about your relationship? Are they kind to people like waitresses? Are they respectful to people in general? Do they respect your boundaries and personal space? You have to answer these questions for yourself and find whether this person is good for you or bad for you based on the answers. If you can answer all these questions effectively and they are not a toxic influence on you then by all means give them another chance. If you answered in a way that they're obviously a toxic influence then never go back.
tranquilwaterfalls16
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Apr 15, 2019
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I think going back to someone really depends on your own experience and what you feel is best for you. There are times where I knew it would be harmful to go back to someone, and there have also been times where I knew the situation was a little more complicated and felt it would be good for both of us to try again. In these situations, it helps me to reflect on my values and what I look for in a relationship. This is only a start, but sometimes it helps me to make a pros and cons list.
Bynger777
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May 16, 2019
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Sometimes, when we leave a partner, it's hard to imagine a life without them. We as people get so accustomed to our routines (talking to someone daily, affection), especially ones that bring some kind of fulfillment. Unfortunately, sometimes not all of these shared moments are healthy for us, let alone edifying to our beings and spirit. In the common case of "should I go back to him/her" I would suggest that you write pros and cons list. Be real with yourself. How does this person aide to your personal goals? What do you like about this person? What do you dislike? How do they make you feel daily? Do I think you should go back to him/her? My answer is only if they bring more to your life than they take from it, if they love you like the way you have dreamed of being love, and if they are considerate of your feelings. It can be rough leaving someone and going into the unknown, but what might be worse is staying in a cycle that never changes. There is always something in the horizon, you just have to take the steps towards it.
heyyyitsnicole
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Jun 1, 2019
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Answering this question is sometimes simple, but also sometimes it is not so simple for others. It depends on the situation since every situation is different and unique. One must assess the situation and consider the many different variables before providing a proper answer or conclusion.
It is highly recommended to seek a professionally trained counselor for guidance which ensure this situation can be navigated with the best quality and care needed. The support of an experienced professional is the greatest tool one can utilize for navigating difficulties in life.
If concerning or confusing thoughts enter your mind that you are unsure about. It is best to seek support whenever possible.
Ziegler0710
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Jun 7, 2019
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This question is vague. We don't know anything about the person, in which case we cannot properly answer. However, I'd you two split apart, there must have been a good reason. Two people don't go separate ways because they're working out. They go separate ways because there is an issue. Unless split apart by outside forces, I'd suggest saving yourself. the heart break and not getting back with him/her. friend or relationship wise. It's never wise to hurt yourself Emotionally over someone. Good luck to you, and stay safe, Emotionally and physically. You are loved by many others. blessed.
Anonymous
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Aug 16, 2019
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It could depend a lot from situation to situation. We don't have much information about why you should/shouldn't go back. You have to decide yourself. Write down and make a list both about the reason you should and shouldn't, and it will probably be easier to evaluate what option fits you better!
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