My partner is using me, should I break up with my partner?
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Moderated by Danielle Johnson, MSED, Community mental Health Counseling, LMHC
Updated: Nov 2, 2021
hopefulWhisper21
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Apr 24, 2018
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Open discussion with your partner is very important. They may not even realize that they are taking advantage of you. A lot of times, once they have you, they don't continue to work on keeping you. It is important to talk about how your feeling and working together to improve
blissart
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Dec 24, 2019
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a healthy relationship is based on mutual care, love, respect and trust. For any long term relationship to blossom and withstand challenges that come in the way , these are must . If a partner is using you, it indicates more towards the relationship based on need and selfish motives than care and respect. In a healthy relation, the beauty is that the two partners come together it increases their strengths and compensates for their weaknesses. In this way, both flourish and develop in each others company . But if you already feel the other partner is using you, it is time to think it over
Anonymous
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Nov 2, 2021
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Honestly, yes. If someone uses you no matter what for, it always indicates toxicity. When you are in a relationship, you should feel like you are both coming together to build something beautiful, not like someone is using you. Especially if you don't feel loved. If you don't feel loved and you are the only one trying for the relationship, then it's not worth it. You can try to talk it out with your partner and see what's going on, but if they are genuinely using you and don't care then just leave them. The world is too big and life is too beautiful to be with someone who just uses you to their convenience.
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